In most of my dreams I'm AGAB, and sometimes in my dreams I'm trans (which is more like trying to pass rather than being the opposite of my AGAB). I think once or twice I've actually been the opposite of my AGAB without feeling that anxious sense of being an imposter.
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I was more of a "well of course everyone wants to be a girl, but we can't just all be girls and be happy" enjoyer myself
Get out of my head 🙃
Nah, I was so dense about being trans that I didn't have dreams about being my proper gender until TWO YEARS into medically transitioning on HRT LOL
I've had a couple swimming as a mermaid recently. I usually see from my perspective in dreams, so I don't usually have a view of what I look like. Also, like aliens invade in my dreams or I'm going to classes and doing homework so I'm not really in the mindset to check. edit: typo
I've had exactly one dream, at around 6 years old, where I was a girl. I barely questioned it aside from finding it kinda cool. The last 20 years they've all had me as a guy, but recently they've started overtly including dysphoric content and feelings
Out of order, I had that experience. Took me till this September to put it together, and I'm now 28. I thought it was just a kink, purely sexual. Nope.
I had a dream somewhat recently, maybe 8 months ago where I was a woman and was living by myself mostly independent and completely happy with it. I felt so much hope for my future and thats often not something I experience. That carried me through the rest of the day, visualizing myself as a woman being able to live mostly by myself and content with it.
I had a random dream recently about catching my reflection and realizing how much more feminine my face looked, but yeah a little disappointed waking up since I haven't started much.
I never see myself in my dreams anyway. So no, not really.