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I need some queer friends my age who are actually cool ๐Ÿ˜”

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[โ€“] ellypny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 17 hours ago

Sometimes I feel like Texas leadership is hell bent on removing literally anyone and EVEERYTHING with the slightest bit of whimsy, joy, or fun. Like fuh they want, the Dale Gribble factory? ๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿ˜ญ

[โ€“] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 day ago

Grew up in Kansas. Not trans, but also very not part of that culture. Get out. Best wishes.

[โ€“] protist@retrofed.com 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Move to the Austin area. Austin has always been where all the weirdos from other parts of Texas migrate to, which is definitely why I came here. If you want any guidance on parts of town/affordability/employment, DM me.

If you want to get all the way out of Texas, I respect that, but I'm staying to fucking fight.

[โ€“] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I moved to my current town to be closer to my partner's family, who are getting older and sicker. After they pass the plan is NM

[โ€“] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Welp, I just got dumped as I was clocking in to work tonight. So I guess nevermind.

[โ€“] LadyMeow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Iโ€™m sorry. :(

On the brighter side, no reason to be in Texas anymore!

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Except that I don't have the means to leave anymore. I don't have anyone I can lean on. I don't have anyone anymore.

[โ€“] protist@retrofed.com 5 points 1 day ago

NM is a solid choice

[โ€“] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

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Well if you ever need a couch to crash on, it wouldn't be the first time a fediverse trans girl moved across the country to stay in my apartment ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

Virgina could be a lot better, but it could also be a whole lot worse. I'm always glad to help queer people escape red states

Hey south TX here too! Hope you're in a blue oasis, although everyone where we live are melting

heh >.< you pass pretty well

anyways what to do in south texas ... uhm i've never been there but recently had a crazy dream where one of my ... aunts i think moved to texas and had crazy adventures or sth ... like drifting through the city in their car, with the screeching tires and all that ... apparently it was a local race or sth and everybody was expected to drive recklessly ... crazy dreams i have, i know

Yeah, that's why Kyle Sullivan & her wife Allison Devery of Door Monster fame retreated to the Northeast