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Weekends almost over 😭 (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/41202906

The rain came back but ima still wear my dresses!

Im sorry to hear about the comrades who dont get to be their true selves this week, i hate to see it

Ill girlmode for you! This dress is actually pretty special to me. Its my first ever dress i got after coming out to my wife! She bought it for me and i loved it 5 years ago and i love it now!!

Excuse my mess and dirty mirror, im not gonna clean it πŸ˜‚

Anyone else have special clothes like this?

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[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

girlroom <3

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Shhhhhhh i hate the mess rn but i hate thinking about cleaning even moreeee

[–] albinodinofanclub@lemmy.zip 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Clean your room, you'll feel better and you'll appreciate yourself.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Yes sir, or ma'am. Itll be done today.😩

[–] albinodinofanclub@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Outstanding, good deal!

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 hours ago

Jobs done! πŸ˜‚

[–] IcyToes@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Then don't think about it. Pick up dirty clothes, and rubbish first. You'll see it more clearly and feel good, then the clothes that can still be worn, then you're 70% to 80% of way there. Success is motivating.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

True true, ill get there. My mood really affects my ability to do adult things and last week was bad sooo πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

Although they say thats not like neurotypical i guess? But i dont think ive ever met a single person who could function through that lol

[–] IcyToes@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Understandable. You'll get there :).

I have no idea how neurotypicals think though.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I heard the other day that some people goto bed, get in, close their eyes, and just... go to sleep?? What the fuck is that???

[–] IcyToes@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I do that. Didn't when I was younger. But as I am content and get older, easy. I struggle to get off games/Lemmy and allow my head to hit the pillow.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

How i envy you lmao

Literally just woke up from a bit of a nightmare, 3 hrs of sleep! Thats more than normal πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

[–] IcyToes@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Oof, that sounds rough. Sorry to hear about that. Hope you work through those things grinding you down. You'll get there. You're worthy and deserve to be happy.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 13 hours ago

Hey thanks so much! The world has done its level best to grind me down, but im still here. And i plan on continuing to be here, so i can help people not have to go throughh similar stuff, atleast not alone ❀️

I know that doesnt sound like alot of time for self care, but (without getting into too much of my past) if what has happened so far hasnt made me give up, nothing will!

I just hope to pass on a little of that energy to others! Also nightmares are a somewhat regular thing for me especially if i take any type of nighttime medicine, which is why i dont. I get REALLY vivid nightmares, especially on that stuff, it just happens, and idk why. But its fine, just takes like 20 minutes after waking to feel ok

[–] guynamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip 4 points 2 days ago

You’re so real for that. I’ve been stressing about my room for literal months, and then the other day I had a burst of cleaning clarity and got it all done

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I love it sooo much! That is so cute! Wish I still had my sundresses

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Well get some more!

I wish i had your cute skirts!! Plus the trans pride shoelaces 😍 where tf you get those?

[–] Nissa@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I will definitely have to do that!

The same place I buy everything sadly. Amazon

https://a.co/d/034Dc4vY

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

I cant hate i shop amazon too as much as i dont want to. Beezos really did a good job making sure his store was the only one that has certain things. And that certain things catalog has been growing for over a decade lol.

No shame! Thats where i got my trans pride shirt (which im not even sure you saw that post! https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/40661672) youre definitely not alone

I also get ALOT of my dresses from hot topic if you can believe that, including this one ❀️