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Mods on these platforms are running wild and I would like to know which instances don't got a st!ck up their Rusty-dusty. I am not looking for 4chan... or nutin but a place that is tah_heard free

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[–] UlrikHD@programming.dev 2 points 9 hours ago

Ban evasion is an immediate permanent ban on our instance, regardless of whether you are evading a temporary or permanent ban. We have a 3-4 strike system meaning that every user will get at least 2 warnings explaining the strike they are given before being banned from our instance, in your case you were given 3 warnings.

We are not going to publicly share the content that lead to your initial permanent ban without your consent, but if you want to discuss the issue, you can contact us on Discord or Matrix. You can also DM an admin's matrix profile.

I'll leave you profile open for a few hours so that you can hopefully see this comment before I ban this account for ban evasion.

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 14 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

This is typically a question asked by bigots of one flavor or another so it's hard to answer the question unless you give a concrete example of something you may like to say that you're afraid would be censored.

[–] audit69@programming.dev 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (3 children)

The word FUCK ..... very snarky or presumptuous of you.

[–] BussyGyatt@feddit.org 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] audit69@programming.dev 1 points 1 hour ago

bite it you scum

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

No instance that I'm aware of forbids cussing.

[–] audit69@programming.dev 1 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I get banned from posting all the time for cussing. That type of language is not allowed error show up on the bottom of my screen. What am I missing here?

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

On Lemmy? Everyone curses, in fact if you censor a f*cking cuss word there will be ten people who state, "You can say fuck on the Internet buddy."

I know, I'm one of them.

[–] SatyrSack@quokk.au 1 points 11 hours ago

I would love to see a screenshot of that error message, if you are able to capture it for us. I have never seen a warning like that, which sounds concerning.

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Depends what you mean by 'free speech'.

Generally, almost every instance has more relaxed rules than you'd find on reddit, but they all do have rules. You'll want to pick an instance that shares the same ideas as you about what is and isn't acceptable to say.

[–] audit69@programming.dev 0 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I take none of this online stuff seriously and I would even be curious to see the "no go zone" just to see the hogs rolling in the mud. It appears I belong no where I suppose.

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Have you considered hosting your own hog-rolling instance?

[–] audit69@programming.dev -1 points 14 hours ago

Aww sheet you think I am a hog thats hilarious... are there tutorials turd nugget? ... I am kinda of a dumb dumb clearly

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

and I would even be curious to see the “no go zone”

Nobody is hosting a 'no go zone' instance, because nobody wants to spend all their time in such a place.

[–] Zedstrian@sopuli.xyz 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

While most Lemmy and Piefed instances are not tolerant of hate speech (sexism, racism, transphobia, homophobia, xenophobia, etc.) disguised as 'free speech', most other rules are enforced at the community (subreddit) level.

In terms of picking an instance, I wouldn't recommend lemmygrad.ml, lemmy.ml, or hexbear.net due to their extreme views. Of the remainder, I recommend choosing one from the Lemmy Federate list; those with auto-add (not discuss.tchncs.de, among others) automatically federate new communities to ensure they are searchable.

For maximum access, I also wouldn't recommend choosing instances that are defederated from at least one other major instance (beehaw.org, lemmy.world, sh.itjust.works, lemmy.dbzer0.com, quokk.au, anarchist.nexus, feddit.org, and lemmynsfw.com; fedinsfw.app is new and seemingly not defederated yet from major instances, but might get defederated by non-NSFW instances).

Taking the above recommendations into account, this leaves us with the following Lemmy and Piefed instances with over 250 or 100 monthly active users:

[Lemmy] (250+ MAU)

  • lemmy.zip
  • lemmy.ca
  • lemmy.blahaj.zone
  • programming.dev
  • sopuli.xyz
  • lemmy.today
  • feddit.uk
  • infosec.pub
  • reddthat.com

[Piefed] (100+ MAU)

  • piefed.social
  • piefed.ca
  • piefed.blahaj.zone
  • piefed.world
  • feddit.online

(tap the Lemmy/Piefed links to view the full lists)

A key point of differentiation between instances is which instances they choose to defederate; this controls which instances you're able to find content from. You can use the Federation Checker to find this list for any given instance.

Ultimately, review the policies and focus of any given instance to find the one that suits your preferences best.

[–] SatyrSack@quokk.au 2 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

If you want to go off of purely "free speech", probably one of the top defederated instances. There is a reason these instances are so often defederated: all of the problems that are caused by having little to no restrictions.

[–] audit69@programming.dev 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SatyrSack@quokk.au 1 points 11 hours ago

This should be the same post, but from lemmy.world instead of the canonical link from OP's instance: https://lemmy.world/post/9418406