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Saw an old lady getting out of a BMW X7 M60i (the high performance version). I asked her what made her choose the M60i and she just said “I dunno, the salesman said it was the best one they had”.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 93 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Two sides of the same coin.
When I was in my 20s I had all the energy and creativity, but couldn't afford the means to put them to good use.

Now in my 40s I have the necessary disposable income, but my energy has been zapped by trying to get on top of this adulting business. I still get a creative burst, but I have to manage my projects so that I can stick to something I'm actually able to complete.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 67 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When I was 38 I finally able to get that sports car I always wanted and my twit of a neighbor who had 6 kids and pregnant with #7 condescendingly said that it was my mid life crises car.

My response was there is no mid life crises there was always a lack of money crises..

[–] Knoxvomica@lemmy.ca 44 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Just know, on that day, that neighbour wanted nothing more than to trade spots with you for a week.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I assumed the mom was speaking.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 55 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Could have fooled me: I’m old and have no money

[–] hesh@quokk.au 24 points 1 week ago

Why couldn't I have three money and no kids?

[–] Nobody@anarchist.nexus 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Having disposable income these days comes from having the same luck that made boomers millionaires. Not to say it doesn’t involve hard work, but lots of people work hard. The people who get actual compensation for it are either born into it or get very lucky.

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[–] Protoknuckles@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago

When I was young, I had energy but no money. When I'm older, I'll have money but no energy. It's only now in my 30s and 40s that I have... neither. 😔

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m old. What’s money?

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[–] leadore@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The logical correlation would be money is wasted on the rich. Youth --> young : Money --> rich

IOW the idea is about not appreciating what you have ("you don't know what you've got til it's gone"). So young people not appreciating the youth they have is in the same vein as rich people not appreciating the money they have.

[–] NegentropicBoy@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Whoever finds a way to convert money into youth is on a winner.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

As opposed to the youth into money….

[–] sdfric88@lemmy.sdf.org 31 points 1 week ago

Labour turns youth into money. The young die in factories so the old can live in luxury

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 week ago

Just purchase some blood plasma from young people and inject it.

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[–] morto@piefed.social 20 points 1 week ago

Money is wasted on the rich and their lavish culture. Don't be ageist about it.

[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Neither is a waste, but neither is fair.

The young are paid with youth, while the elderly are paid with currency.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 6 points 1 week ago

The elderly who are lucky enough to have money they can spend spend an awful lot of it telling youngsters what to do.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

I often see people driving fast cars like Teslas as if gravity will instantly throw them off the road if they turn the car at faster speeds than 10 mph. They brake like 20 seconds before they are gonna turn, then go slowly slowly towards the street they want to turn in to, then they almost stop and turn the steering wheel.

Not frustrating at all to be behind one of those...

I think some people dont know how gravity works when they are in a car, so they act like they are controlling an oil tanker, just in case.

[–] kossa@feddit.org 11 points 1 week ago

As a cyclist I honestly applaud this turning behavior ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Bleys@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

idk how you can be upset about people driving safely

[–] Illecors@lemmy.cafe 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Bleys@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

explain how people artificially driving faster than they’re comfortable with is safer

[–] Aqarius@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

If your speed differs drastically from the traffic flow, you're a hazard. If you're unable to adjust your speed to your surroundings, you shouldn't be driving.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

It upsets people and is actually illegal to drive too slow. Makes other people angry, they take risks to overtake you, and could cause accidents.

This is in our official driving school books even.

If you are not comfortable driving at speed limit, you need to learn that. Its part of being a good driver. Of course depending on weather.

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[–] varyingExpertise@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

Safe driving is conscious, fluid driving. If safe driving were just slow driving, we'd best all be going 30km/h everywhere.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] innermachine@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

Slowing unnecessarily at every then is very dangerous. There is a difference between being cautious and being an obstruction on the road.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 8 points 1 week ago

They dont drive safely for others. If I walk in front of you very slowly and you cant pass, you would be annoyed. Its the same in traffic.

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[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's actually why the used market for BMWs is such trash. If you want a manual transmission good luck finding one because the original buyers are the people OP is talking about. People who actually know which cars are good tend to be poor people lol

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Eh, downvote me, but manuals are overrated. Humans just can’t react as quickly anymore, especially with the power output now.

Now give me a gently used B58 or N63TU3 engine and I’ll be quite happy. Luckily these people that just “buy the best” don’t know what they have and just putt around town for a couple years.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

It's not always about reaction speed or power. Manuals are just more fun.

[–] DozensOfDonner@mander.xyz 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sorry but what do you mean you have to react quickly when manuals are overrated? What should you be able to do so fast in manual?

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[–] locahosr443@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah they do 5 mile journeys which turns the oil into fuel, then they follow the BMW service interval of 20k which is about 4x too long for a performance engine.

Lots of 'gentle use' means the bottom end spent it's whole life at minimum oil pressure, oil which was probably trash most the time.

It's not the clueless pensioners fault, but man the industry sucks now

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[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Yep, never seen a young person with an expensive car before

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 4 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Not one that wasn't given to them by a rich daddy or mommy.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

the quote is by George Bernard Shaw

Wisdom is wasted on the old, and youth is wasted on the young

nothing to do with money, everything to do with the accumulated wisdom of years of living and the ignorant confidence of youth.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 6 points 1 week ago

I doubt age has anything to do with it. She likely was not begging in the streets when she was young.

[–] violentfart@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

If you imagine a line graph, there’s supposed to be a crossover point between the two, a sweet spot.

You are the one who ultimately decides when and how large that sweet spot is.

[–] tyler@programming.dev 11 points 1 week ago

Not really if you have things like medical issues or poverty…

[–] gilindoeslemmy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

I think the problem is that as we have moved forward from baby boomer generations the overlap in those two lines has gotten smaller and smaller and in Gen Alpha it doesn’t even overlap at all

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nah.

Some people had influence on it.

But there's not enough "good" spots left and the nepo babies will always get theirs.

The more wealth inequality worsens, the less social mobility there is. A rich idiot like trump can do literally everything wrong but still wind up on top due to generational inertia.

Meanwhile someone that busts ass their whole life, can barely beat "lifestyle inflation" where they can't provide the same level of lifestyle for their kids despite being in a higher earners bracket than their parents.

That stall can kill an entire civilizations drive.

If there's no reward for work, everyone does just enough to not get in trouble. It doesn't sound like a big deal, because we're living thru it so it's "normal". But it's also undeniable that it's not working out well.

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[–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago

Remember that joke about men’s midlife crisis, that they'd buy a sports car when they are 40?
It would be fun to ask the men in their 40s around here what they could buy... I'm still not there, but currently I can buy a pizza.

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