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I still remember... an apartment I lived in till the age of 8... like I could draw a map of the interior...

I still kinda remember some of the places of my relatives that I've been to frequently, although those memories are a little bit more blurry.

I remember some of the schools I've been to... like the general vibe of it, idk if I could actually draw a map... more of a notebook doodle maybe

I used to draw maps of my neighborhood when I was in brooklyn... yeah so... I wasn't allowed much computer time and didn't have a phone... and my brain kinda turned my attention to the surroundings and I just get so bored and draw a map of the neighborhood lol.

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[–] SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

By the way, recall that humans were traditionally hunter-gatherers, for hundreds of thousands of years. This required them to be intimately familiar with a large chunk of land around their home and know all the plants and animals that were there. Rural dwellers still show similar knowledge of the land.

Kim Stanley Robinson's novel 'Shaman' kinda touches on this just a bit, showing what life might've been like for a prehistoric human. The author is known for meticulously researching the subject matter of his books: for example, he's said that he spent time figuring out which words likely originated in prehistoric time, and that it felt weird to have his characters basically say "mamma mia", as those are some of the oldest words.

(Although a recent thread on Reddit on a related topic assumes throughout that humans were nomadic before agriculture. This clashes with my previous belief, but I don't know enough about this to figure out which view is correct.)

[–] SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Not just houses and apartments, including those where I was a guest. I also walked quite a lot across two cities — as hiking exercise, I walked over most of a city with several million population, over a few years. I can remember most of those streets, and I've noticed some changes in the landscape from years before: mostly new fences and buildings put up.

Moreover, I have a couple places that only exist in my dreams and daydreams, but are the same every time they pop into my mind. They vaguely correspond to real places, but aren't copies of them.

This all is not to brag, as my memory otherwise is rather questionable, and I have little use for spatial memory, not being a taxi driver or whatever.

[–] Pazintach@piefed.social 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

I remember every place where I've lived in for more than one week. Including their surrounding areas. I like go back there in my mind from time to time, for many of them don't exist any more.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 2 points 23 hours ago

I've only lived in two homes so far so yes, they're both in there.

[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yup, every single one, with one exception.

Once I was renting a town house, and due to a structural issue, had to move in to the unit next to it after being in the original unit for about 2 years. Turns out the unit next to it was an exact mirror of the original one. That really messed with my head and I have trouble recalling the exact layout any more. My brain keeps flipping and merging different parts of them together in to some strange chimera.

It also messed with my cats, who would run down the stairs and turn the wrong direction, in to a wall.

Yes, perfectly. I can think of an abandoned house I used to go in 20 years ago and recall the almost exact layout of it.

I have a really good map memory. My friend though, they cannot visualize in their head so its hard for them. I had thought everyone could do it.

[–] greybeard@feddit.online 3 points 1 day ago

Running through my head, I could easily draw maps for dozens of places. I've lived in quite a few, but my work had me regularly visiting a lot of different offices (IT). Many of them I did literally draw maps of, for wiring diagrams, or just to help other techs find their way.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 43 points 2 days ago (3 children)

My entire memory operates spatially. I have accurate floor plans of every place I’ve been to at least more than once. I can navigate any number of places. Even still have the layout and significant memories of my old middle school. (Interestingly enough, when I went back there, the whole building felt about 30% smaller in every dimension—hallways narrower and shorter, ceilings lower. Turns out, this is because I’m 30% larger than I was when I was twelve.)

[–] sturmblast@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

I'm like this too

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 6 points 2 days ago

Even as a relative youngster I remember visiting previous schools for some reason or another and being astounded by just how tiny the chairs and desks were.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

when I went back there

So you got kids now and went to a Parent-Teacher conference?

Damn I'm kinda nostalgic for a school I used to go to...

I mean I kinda wanna go back to the neighborhood where I used to live in and then raise kids there... and then have a moment where I'm like: "Hey kiddo, when your dad first arrived in this country, that was the school I used to go to"... like nostalgia + being able to relate to your kids...

Cuz my parents went to school in China and they had no idea what my experiences were... like I doubt they can relate to me, cuz I can hardly relate to them...

(I remember 1st 2nd grade before I came to the US, they had meter sticks they used to hit kids with and the teacher would throw chalk at kids that looked like they weren't paying attention...)

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

No, I don’t have kids. A friend of mine cleans there and asked me if I wanted to see the place after a couple decades away. Dead of summer. No one around, just wandered for a few minutes. Lonely, but nothing moved an inch.

I’m trans, asexual, and taking this virginity to my grave. My bloodline stops with me.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I went back to my high school as a substitute teacher, but they had remodeled it and aside from a few familiar hallways, it was completely different.

Which is even more confusing than never being there at all, because I THOUGHT I knew where I needed to go, only to find they had moved that room to another area.

[–] dave@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago

Pretty sure this is kind of how lots of memory works in general—very spatially oriented and you can use that to your advantage. Look up ‘memory palace’ for example.

[–] oopsgodisdeadmybad@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

I feel this is probably pretty common, unless you've lived in a bunch of different places for not very long at a time.

I've only lived in 3 places. (Well 4, but I was only like 2 or 3 when we left the first one)

Only 3 places for a decent amount of time while old enough to remember. Moved out of the first of those when I was 6. My only other places are the house I grew up in and a house I moved into with friends and co-workers.

None of my siblings remember the first house, but I could still draw a decent layout of it, and remember how it looked.

My main house I lived in the most I still know obviously, and my parents still own it, so I definitely haven't forgotten it.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 25 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've lived in 21 apartments/houses, and I remember them all except from four where I didn't live for very long.

Side note: I've worked offshore rotation for years, and a ship becomes your home away from home. I remember them all.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Wow, I'd never considered you'd remember a ship that way, but of course you would.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

One of the ships is "famous" in the industry; Most seismic companies lease it at some point, and I discovered a couple of years ago that when my former employer folded, my new coworkers employer leased the ship, and we had been sitting in the same chair in the instrument room.

He cracked up when I told him there's a counterstrike map somewhere based on that ship. Because we needed something to do during standby days.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

When I’m stressed out and need to calm myself, I run through the layouts of old buildings I used to work, live, or go to school in.

[–] FarceOfWill@infosec.pub 5 points 1 day ago

All of Skyrim

[–] CaptPretentious@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nearly every place. Apparently we lived in a place for a few months when I was first born.

Freaked out part of my family when I drew a map of the first house I remember. I think they finally figured out that children do remember things... And a lot of the shit I was put through I might remember

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Freaked out part of my family when I drew a map of the first house I remember.

My mom brought me to her workplaces at least once... or maybe more times than that... (I don't even remember how many times tbh) and then one day my older brother wanted to fight me so I got scared and I "ran from home" when I was like 6 years old... and at some point, I had the idea of just I want mommy so I took the bus there and I knew which stop to get off, but she wasn't there at work because she already got notified by grandma so she went to file a missing persons report and so I took the bus home... then I got to the mall area near my apartment and saw a bunch of cops...

so when I told my mom about it, my mom was so shocked that I made my way to her workplace...

I doubt the cops even thought of looking that far, they probably just went around the neighborhood.

(literally Home Alone NYC shit, but it was in Guangzhou, China instead)

I just became like my family's navigator basically.

My mom scolded me for running away, but then also praised me for being smart enough to find my way.

I remember them saying that I used to guided them around places because they stuggled to understand maps or whatever... idk... I don't really remember about those from this point in time, just the memory of being told I was good at finding my way.

I also was their navigator throught NYC metro system... idk if my parents actually sucked at finding their way... or maybe they were just trying to make me feel confident in myself.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ha, yes. I actually just had a funny moment about this a few weeks ago. I spent a lot of time as a teen in Canada (I live in the US.) One of my coworkers, by sheer coincidence, came from the same town I used to visit.

We were talking the other day and I mentioned that I had sushi for the first time in Canada. She asked where and I was like, “Oh, I don’t remember the name, but I know where it was.” She mentioned a name, which didn’t initially ring a bell, so I opened a map. I zoomed in on where I remembered walking until I found the spot, and instantly laughed. It was, indeed, the exact same place my coworker named.

It’s been over 20 years, but if I were to go to Canada and take the train into that town, I’d still be able to walk to that sushi place without any help.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 days ago

I remember basically every house or apartment I’ve lived in, and every office I’ve worked in. Probably quite a few stores and restaurants I’ve frequented, schools I’ve attended. I can recall neighborhood layouts. Basically anything spatial.

Now, can I tell you what someone’s name is two minutes after they’ve told me? Not a chance.

[–] Lor@mander.xyz 8 points 2 days ago (3 children)

everywhere i have ever been...

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[–] suzyq@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago

Pretty much, yes. I could probably draw them now, but I make no assumptions that it would be to scale.

I can't draw you a map of routes I've taken, but I can see them in my head.

I remember drawing floorplans for fun as a kid after my dad brought home a book of them from a housing company - that was 30± years ago.

But I can't tell you what I had for breakfast this morning.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yes. Interesting observation that we remember that.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago

Lol I thought I had a great memory for remembering my apartment at 8 years old, then I see all these comments and I'm like... oh, so I'm not that special after all

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have only lived in 3 places. I can definitely remember the second place, the longest one. I vaguely remember the first house I lived in until I was 5. Not sure how close my memory is to reality tho. The second house I could just load up a Doom .wad I still have from when I made my house in the game if I ever forgot or felt nostalgia for.

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[–] crwth@piefed.zip 6 points 2 days ago

I think I could do fairly well with any place I'd frequently been in, and with enough autonomy to get disoriented and reoriented. Some of the houses I've lived in are not much more architecturally elaborate than a shotgun shack, but I could also do my elementary school, most of a middle school, two college dormitories, and most of a university library.

[–] curios@piefed.social 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I launched TFC and went into a dead 2fort server not long ago. That was a major blast of nostalgia I can't even begin to describe. Dustbowl, Well, Avanti, Badlands, etc. Good times and I think my first online mp experience.

That and Battlefield on bonus.com back in the day.

[–] curios@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m going to have to try that. I love the scout with those concussion grenades, and that demo spam…

[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Haha oh yeah I played lots of medic and scout but mostly engi!

[–] grue@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Yep. Couldn't tell you dates, names, or many events, but I have a great mental image of what the places looked like and how they were laid out.

[–] THE_GR8_MIKE@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I remember every place I've ever lived. My mind will not forget those things.

[–] villainy@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Every home I've lived in, every school I've attended, and every office I've worked in.

What's weird is when I have a dream that takes place in one of these, they almost always wrong. When I can remember the dream I can also remember exactly how the space was different from my memories. Of course my waking memories are the correct ones, right? Right? Oh no.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

Of course my waking memories are the correct ones, right? Right? Oh no.

I can imagine you being Loid Forger (from Spy x Family) and sneaking into the school and gathering intel lol

[–] leadore@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Yes, I thought back through them and I can totally remember and visualize them. But I've forgotten a lot of the address numbers.

There was an apartment we lived in when I was 6-7 which for some reason has some hazy spots, but besides that yeah pretty much. Friends' houses, schools since 9ish (at least the parts I went to), every workplace, theme parks, basically anywhere I've been a few times.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Easy, most of the places I've lived in are one bedroom apartments.

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[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I have exceptionally good memory for this kind of thing so yes. I can probably remember the layout of every building i've ever fully explored or 80% explored.

I remember some of the schools I’ve been to… like the general vibe of it, idk if I could actually draw a map… more of a notebook doodle maybe

I think you'll surprise yourself. You piece things together at the time, E.G "I can't go there because it's staff only; therefore that entire area must contain the teachers' lounge, where they make the food, and the headteachers' office." By process of elimination you could probably figure out what each room was used for in your old school even without having gone to all the rooms.

[–] Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I call myself a homing pigeon because I have some wicked intuition with spatial knowledge.

So that being said, yes. I could definitely map out everywhere I've lived or visited for an okay amount of time. I could also probably give a pretty decent map of the surrounding areas of each.

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[–] Medic8eme@piefed.ca 3 points 2 days ago

I have the spicy brain. I remember everywhere I've ever driven to and that's a lot of places. Across Canada several times. Lived in 5 different provinces and traveled extensively throughout. I map everything in my head. I am terrible with cardinal directions though.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 3 points 2 days ago

Any place I've frequented I guess

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Hmm, I only have a rough idea about my elementary school, come to think of it. I remember the field outside much better. Later schools are easy, though. Houses are all there, and relative's houses. Certain stores and a church or two, as well.

I remember a radius around every place I've lived outside, but could only draw it geometrically where there's been grid layouts. Otherwise it would be kinda abstract, like they did it in Rome:

Central Europe and Africa pictured, lol.

[–] hdsrob@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I'm 53 now, and could easily draw a map of the 2 houses that I lived in as a kid between 5 and 18 years old, along with most of the 10 or so houses I've lived in as an adult (a couple were very short term as a young adult, and I'm kind of vague on the exact layouts).

Before 3 years old I don't remember much, a couple of vague things that could just be from pictures of me in those houses, rather than real memories. I kind of remember some of the house from 4 - 5 years old.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I only remember one because it was a shot gun layout. Kitchen-living room-mom's bedroom-my bedroom all in a straight line. Super inconvenient because I had to go past her room every time. The other places I lived were bigger, so I don't remember them exactly.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hear that guys? Smaller is better. If you have a bigger one, she won't remember it....

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