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Live in the past, is mine. I will listen to things over and over because some songs or even podcast episodes, rewind me back to times where I felt comfortable in. I do sometimes poke my head out to see where things are currently in the present, but nothing around really makes me gravitate to anything current-day. But, then I just go back to my hole in living in the past.

People used to tell old people to get over it about them remembering things as they were all of the time. I'm understanding why they do that. Sometimes the present really truly sucks.

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[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Finally being the Luddite. I’m a software engineer and have always done well by jumping on new technology and making it work. But my company is really pushing ai and as far as I can see, most people are just taking longer to do worse. I end up cleaning up their mess and of course that’s not something LLMs can do

For example instead of taking an hour to upgrade a dependency then investigate the test results, now you can spend half a day screwing with ai to accept its 5 minute change without looking at the tests.

Ans by the metrics, they completed the task in 5 minutes instead of an hour, and no mention about whether the tests still pass. And then they escalate to me to get it working

Even worse, I’m dreading layoffs for the first time in years. Not just because of the economy and policy chaos, not just because I lost my “sponsor”, but ai ….. not quite the way you expect though. Reviews are coming up and the people who screw around with ai instead of working have developed agents to go back through all of our online systems to present huge reports on their years activity. While I’m sure no one will read it, how can I compete with that?

[–] PodPerson@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago

Yep - development is not fun anymore. I’d retire 5 years ago if I could.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

Sorry, ima speed runner, so I sequence broke. I used the kidney failure glitch to get a bunch of old person achievements early, but now that I got the transplant achievement (and the cancer beaten one by doing this complicated trick of avoiding a specific virus almost no one has to get cancer from said virus via transplant) I'm back on some of the young people achievement farming.

[–] binomialchicken@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Taking a guess - some kind of polyomavirus - probably BK?

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Nope; Epstein-Barr virus.

[–] cdf12345@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago

Same, 18 yrs post Tx here. Life feels like a weird time travel episode

[–] how_we_burned@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago

Jeebus you rolled like ten ones in a row on the ole d20.

Can you go out and buy a lotto ticket, like right now. You got a 20 comin up any day now.

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Getting pissed at the noise kids make outside, playing.

[–] Railing5132@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yapping dogs... Loud cars...

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

People crinkling paper bags on trains.

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I went to my friend's kid's volleyball game. Those girls had on very short shorts that were tight and it made me feel super creepy and I didn't want to watch. I was trying to support my busy friends with kids, but I'll never do it again because "these young girls need to put on some clothes."

If I was their dad, I wouldn't let them out like that.

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 4 points 6 days ago

This reminded me of a moment last year when I volunteered to help clean up a historical cemetery. I get there and not only was I the only guy, but all the girls were either high schoolers or like first year college kids all wearing booty shorts. My brain is making me think I look like a creep being a 30 year old surrounded by young girls in revealing clothing and also making me think "why are you doing yard work in stuff that barely protects your legs???? Who told ya'll this was ok???!!!"

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Idk this is how I feel with my younger sister but she says it's comfortable. Idk

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Man, maybe she just has a point and I'm paranoid because of all that's going on.

Yep. You and me both

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

Last night I went to a show with my college kid. I complained that it was getting late…. The show ended at 7:30

[–] HaraldvonBlauzahn@feddit.org 5 points 6 days ago

Looking at young people and having sad thoughts about their future - feeling we owe them something I can't give them.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 days ago

Telling people younger than me not to worry about things. Like even coworkers I only have like a decade on. No you sweet little child that's for us adults to deal with please wait off to the side and observe while I handle this bullshit.

[–] djdarren@piefed.social 5 points 6 days ago

A good Saturday afternoon for me is driving to a nearby beach via a chippy, and just sitting in the car watching the world go by, and remarking with my partner on all the Very Good Dogs we see while we eat chips.

It's pretty much one of my favourite things to do.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 days ago

I started to pickle things and make basicly all in my kitchen myself.

[–] Plurrbear@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Give me a double bleach neat and a shot of Draino please….

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 115 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Thinking a lot of new technologies are stupid and unnecessary. Of course, at least in big tech, lot of them objectively are.

[–] kescusay@lemmy.world 60 points 1 week ago (6 children)

My favorite example: Copilot to read your emails for you and send responses automatically. Get two people with Copilot sending each other emails with neither person actually involved. Efficient!

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[–] How_do_I_computah@lemmy.world 58 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Try to identify birds and trees. How did I go through life not being able to identify my natural surroundings?

[–] Felis_Rex@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I started playing a game with myself during my freshman year of college: how many species can I identify? At first I could only easily distinguish between birds and mammals. Then I was like oh well maybe I should bay closer attention to plants, then I realized how do I tell the difference between trees? Ok leaves are easy enough things to spot but why are some plants woody and some are... Wait how do I describe that? (Word I was looking for was herbaceous).

I took a lot of shrooms during that time, realized Im not built for an office environment and decided to study horticulture and botany even though it wasn't offered at my university. I decided that I'd become a horticulturist and everyone around me probably thought I was smoking too much weed.

They were probably right, but I stuck to the plan regardless.

[–] How_do_I_computah@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Ha. The two words I distinctly remembered learning while going on this journey are "forb" and "sedge". The former being "I need nonwoody nongrass plants for my garden, what is the word for those plants?." And the latter "how is this weed not considered a grass? It's a sedge? What is that?"

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[–] Bluegrass_Addict@lemmy.ca 52 points 1 week ago (2 children)

flat out rejecting modern anything. I have zero desire to buy new phones, computers, new clothes, appliances etc... it's ALL junk designed to fail so I buy again.

I just don't now. I buy nothing and I don't care. subscriptions? get fuked. replacing anything that breaks? hell no.. I'll fix it instead.

I used to like companies, but I've learned they are all criminal scum, liars and thieves and deserve very special treatment. they pushed me over the edge and I will never return and never stop voicing my distrust and dislike for all of them. even in the stores themselves when I have to go buy food... I'm very vocal about how overly priced and absurd everything is to the point where people look at me... I want that, I want others to actively think about it especially when they are in the stores too.

I'm essentially done with 'society' whatever the hell that means

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[–] BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world 45 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Didn't think I'd be telling my kids the TV is rotting their brains. Yeah, Looney Tunes wasn't educational in the least but at least the shorts had plotlines. Stuff my kids watch (mostly on YouTube) will transition between scenes within seconds and there's no point or resolution to any of it!

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[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 44 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I fall asleep at every holiday party. My grandpa used to do that shit. Now... I'm tired and I don't want to deal with anyone's bullshit. Wake me when it's time to say goodbye.

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Not want to leave the house after 9-10 PM

Eat better

Prefer getting my clothes from Costco

Get excited about new appliances okay nevermind I actually got a blender as a teenager and loved it that doesn’t count.

But still it’s funny how much of a stereotype we all become in some small ways.

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[–] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 30 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Random noises when getting up from sitting.

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