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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 3 points 58 minutes ago (1 children)

Just gonna leave this here… (sound on bottom right of screen)

https://imgur.com/a/VbaSX6S

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 1 points 20 minutes ago (1 children)
[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 minutes ago

Meredith. She was on traitors with her Ex partner of Bird's new bestie who was also on Traitors.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 8 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Hey circle is much smaller! I did see her buddy Leaks was going to fly in for the festivities but got grounded by the storm.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 hours ago

Like why the hell would she fly in to shout answers out at a tv and fail miserably at wall squats. I wonder how long she was supposed to come for?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

She has nobody. I could never celebrate my birthday without my husband.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

The entire thing seems so odd to me. Friends might take someone out for lunch to mark a birthday but she hosts a sad evening to celebrate herself! It isn’t really how most adults operate.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 4 points 53 minutes ago* (last edited 53 minutes ago) (1 children)

Seriously, looked like a night I would’ve had when I was a teenager having a sleepover

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 1 points 19 minutes ago

Those nights were alot more fun then what she was doing at 41. My husband and I go and have a romantic dinner. That's my kind of celebration.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 3 points 58 minutes ago

It's embarrassing. wall squats, tasting cornstarch and games about nothingness.....

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 hours ago

Technically it’s tomorrow….this twat makes it a week long production.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 hours ago

Same. My SO is the only person I wanted to celebrate with

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 16 hours ago (5 children)

How many days does her Bday last?

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 hours ago

She’s so gross

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 8 points 12 hours ago

As many as she can get attention for. She has the mentality of a 4 year old.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 6 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Imagine needing this much attention

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 hours ago

Imagine being this full of and in love with yourself. Who acts like this?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 hours ago

Omg it's her 41st...... She's weird

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 16 hours ago

Single and ready to f*ck on a rock

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 10 points 16 hours ago

That corn broom hair could go up in flames 😆

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

The way she speaks is so bloody annoying! She does weird shit with her mouth.

[–] MaleficentTrouble428@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 hours ago

I can't stand how she shakes a beverage cup above her head, like why? Everything is so unnatural and performative

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 12 points 18 hours ago

Lip filler + infantile + copying others = Sarah Landry voice

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago (3 children)

We should start a poll - when will Birdshit announce (and blame shame) for her marriage ending? Winner gets a $25 Starbucks gc 😏🙈

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 11 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I’m betting on this being an engagement tactic. She wants the most engagement for her 41st bday PhoToShOoT so she’s not wearing her ring (just like Ariana) and then will post her photos. She’s such a narc. (Which I use sparingly as I am in mental health- but she’s def got signs)

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I’m just thinking they don’t fit. Gonna grift a new one soon I’m sure.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 12 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

If someone else is waiting in the wings that can feed her ego and has access to things that will get her more attention that I’d say 💯 (just like she did with Shane and her first marriage- he was in IT and got her a job with Forkly- etc) but as someone else pointed out his aesthetic doesn’t serve her anymore (hipster/ craft beer/ beard/ nerdy) she’ll move into someone else. She definitely has a pattern of this behavior with friends and significant others alike. You’re likely onto something!

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

She’ll pretend gay for attention. It’s no coincidence that Meredith and Cagla broke up and Sarah Landry is the only one Meredith doesn’t follow. Once a homewrecker, always a homewrecker.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bday photos shoot reveal themes:

  1. New beginnings
  2. Divorced
  3. Later in life lesbian

And have some kind of party/trip about it.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Crazy she hasn’t even mentioned her bs bday photoshoot yet! Surely she post some naked photos today after being so quiet.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago

It’s a big reveal after all. All about her.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago

Her poor kids. My teens would be mortified if I posted the things she does online.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago

I think she’ll start hinting at it on her bday but won’t fully reveal it until the new year

[–] JollyTask@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It’s been a minute since I visited this page.. I was stuck in the mccarvell sub on Reddit (I haven’t left that sub, just forgot about this one). But I noticed that shame has been missing so I had to come back here… She’s awfully quiet this week!

[–] MaleficentTrouble428@lemmy.ca 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

what's that sub? I can't find it

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Ouuu how’s that sub? She’s SUCH A MEAN GIRL

[–] JollyTask@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

The audacity of some people right!

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 hours ago

I feel like well intentioned followers genuinely want to offer messages of care and concern - she is morbidly obese, and then publicly shames people who (most of the time) care.

[–] No_really_why@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago

You’re welcome!