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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (3 children)

No like seriously, the way society is sick of influencers shit and their free ride through life. Getting gifted this life of luxury for doing absolutely NOTHING and contributing NOTHING. What a sad, empty, pathetic and fake existence. I will take my mediocre earnings but rich in family & friends life over this ANY DAY ✌🏼

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Must be nice to just fuck off to Mexico for no real reason and forget about all your responsibilities at home. Most of us are preparing for Christmas, working, cooking, cleaning, shoveling, taking care of kids, etc. If I was her husband and saw this post about her luxurious day at the spa I’d quite honestly consider packing my bags and not being there when she gets home but he’s a simp tbh 🤷🏻‍♀️

Like sorry but this isn’t work, she isn’t gonna influence anyone to book a trip to Mexico when so many are struggling during the holidays. This is just another solo vacay that she would say she needed so bad.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

What a sad life they live. Shame likes her gone. I’m not sure how anyone stands to be around her.

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

She needs to get called out just like Jaclyn Hill is right now.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Literally no one cares you gloating bitch

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It’a crazy talk how she seems to think that these are primo activities right now- for anyone. No real interactions or connection- ever. It's sad.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

She’s alone in Mexico acting important - I’m sure her sad stretch marked and beaten down followers are feeling very inspired.

This is weird content. Other influencers have a plus 1 there. Guess Bird needed some self care time during the busy holiday season.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Me too. Like this lazy bitch deserves a spa day.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But it has been soooo long since the last grifted one!

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ew i remember this. I felt so disgusted when I saw it.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

At this point I don’t know what she sees when she looks at herself through her phone. She is sick and desperate to stay relevant but I think getting thin again right now will work against her.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

She literally does NOTHING to deserve this, makes me so mad

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

I'd love to know who's in her comments cheering her on! Like wtf.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Me too! I’d rather be home, in the snow with my family than alone in Mexico talking to my phone!

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Personally im spending my ONE day off this week Christmas shopping with my 24 year old daughter and navigating the shit drivers of Milton 😅 which I’d much rather be doing than as you said… alone, in Mexico talking to myself through my phone.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

It doesn’t matter how old they are - they still want time with their mom! I’m sure it was a good day.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Who needs reality when you have online ‘friends’ and a million bots.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Her most recent jingleballs image doesn’t look much like her instagram face. Old news I know! She also isn’t able to do her quirky talk out the side of her face thing. Is she using a filter to exaggerate that too?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

This looks nothing like her Instagram face. Can you imagine being 41 years old, a mother of four, and still behaving like an insecure 14-year-old that no one likes?

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

That looks like her Traitors face.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (7 children)

What did you do in Mexico? “Took pics of myself in the elevator” ✌️

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 week ago

Imagine this dickheads camera roll 🤡🪞

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

That’s basically all she did on every single trip she took this year. When I go on a trip majority of my photos are of the scenery and maybe a couple of myself infront of a landmark for memories but her entire camera roll is just photos of herself in different outfits and bikinis. Such a waste sending her anywhere, when will companies learn.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Self absorbed airhead.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

So creative….never seen anyone take a photo in an elevator before. Cutting edge. Trendsetter. Avant Garde.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She’s not going to get her brows done before her next reality TV show 🙄

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (5 children)

4mls of juvederm here just fighting for it’s life 😮‍💨🥴

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago

That top lip is puckering like a cats asshole

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

“It was on sale”🤣 ya it’s been on clearance for a hell of a long time, they can’t get rid of them.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

In Guelph, they were little in a centre isle with a bunch of other junk on clearance

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

Literally...birdshit doesn't even use one lol

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)
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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I hope she didn’t transfer 10lbs of makeup on to this head band and put it back on the shelf. She looks like a dildo.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Literally could not look less like her face that’s on traitors.

She looks ridiculous staring lovingly at herself in this dumb headband. Also hates things touching her neck but has a scarf wrapped tight around it 🙄🙄🙄

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

Oh she did. Look as t her crispy hair. Yuck!

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

I wonder how embarrassed she is from the waterloo regional health flop. 2.5 million followers with barely any likes or comments on their posts. Fraud

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They were probably thinking “damn those people calling her out were right”

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (4 children)
[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

The dumb ass faces she makes 😒

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