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[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

god i wish i could pull this off rn, still dealing with my extra hardware lol

[–] Filetternavn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I highly recommend LeoLines! They make the extra hardware disappear, and they're also super comfy. Worth the price, IMO. I have no problem wearing leggings, other than the fact that I don't have an ass lol

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

issue is mainly that E hasnt shrunk anything yet so tucking is extremely painful rn. ive got a gaff already that helps but ita jist gonna take time till i can rock it

[–] Eladriagon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

I’ve also tried TComfiFits and would recommend them as well. Same comment – not “cheap” but worth it IMO!

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah I don't see leggings being a big part of my future.

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

once i can tuck it should be okay but rn its just not viable

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah but I'm going to be trying to avoid a decrease in function by double fisting Cialis. It's going to be pretty fucking obvious.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Double down and make eye contact like its the TSA? (/s)

That's fair. I could do it like a display of dominance.

[–] shiroininja@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

I go with a baggy sweater. But I envy women I see wearing them freely in public. They’re so comfy and body empowering.

[–] kiara@piefed.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 days ago

I did that too the last two days, but for practical reasons