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Do you just pick the closest? Do you check the reviews? Can you even trust reviews? Independent practice vs hospitals?

Wtf?

How the fuck do people navigate this shit?

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[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I realize this isn't very helpful in the practical sense, but sometimes a cynical snort can help in the moment.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 month ago

Lmfao, this is exactly me right now

[–] scrollo@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Do you have a guess on the underlying issue(s)? E.g., trauma (intergenerational, complex, or acute), issues related to neurodivergence (ADHD or ASD), psychiatric conditions (bipolar, schizophrenia, etc).

If so, filter out therapists that don't list the issue as something they treat. Then call them and ask if they have specific training for that issue. A "reputable" therapist should point to a specific training program or certification that you can research. If they say something like, "I'm comfortable talking about that issue but have no training in it," look elsewhere.

The bigger thing to consider: finding a therapist is a match making process. You may have to go through multiple therapists before you find one that helps. Even something as small as communication style is a valid reason to find a new therapist.

Best of luck!

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Pick one which sounds good, see if they fit.

That's the only surefire way, really.

[–] Adudethatis@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago

Convenience of access, reviews and how you feel about that practice. Would you prefer to speak with a male or female? Social workers and mental health associations are offered at good rates based off income. Psychologists and psychiatrists with charge a fee for assessments, and again hourly for follow up appointments. Hope this information helps! Always a good first step to getting your brain to a "better place" - anecdotal experience of course.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

It will vary depending on your location.

Here in Australia you first talk to a General Practitioner, as in your local family doctor.

They will make some suggestions about which service might be a good fit for you.

I wouldn't read or trust reviews for clinics in this industry.

[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

My doctor directed me to a list, then I filtered it to remove people I absolutely didn’t want to see, then I emailed everyone on the list. I got two replies back, picked from them.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Primary Care Physician.

Teachers

Minister/religious leader

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

hmmm this kool aid taste funny...

anyways, I'm tired...

brb just gonna take quick nap

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

DO NOT GO GENTLE INTO THAT GOOD NIGHT!

[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 month ago

I usually search my insurance's website for local therapists.

[–] ServeTheBeam@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Go to Psychology Today website and use their “find a therapist” tool at the top. You can filter by insurance and several other filters.