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All my gay friends have turned out to be bi. All my bi-curious friends have turned out to be straight or have a preference for the opposite gender. I know like one bisexual guy who is with a dude, and that's my ex's friend. And all my bi friends end up dating the opposite gender. I do not criticize this, but I do find it funny, as this happened to myself included.

I may have said I'm trans and a woman, but I really mean "trans" as in non-binary, yet still connected to womanhood, but I am technically cis in my womanhood. I now identify as a cis woman with she/they/it pronouns.

A lot has happened. So my ex I kept talking about was a trans dude. Now "he" is a girl again. She is omnisexual and I am bisexual and we are best friends. I deeply regret my past actions and realize I've been really shitty, so I went to work on myself a bit.

Anyway, we are in happy relationships now!

I used to criticize gay relationships, I'll admit, but ever since I became more accepting of my preference for men, I became more accepting of gay people. I guess I would especially get upset when my crushes or boyfriends were bisexual because there could be a chance that they won't be attracted to me, so I solved this by only dating straight men.

My happy relationship is with Jimmy, a straight ally, and my ex's Renee is with Chris, who is definitely an ally because Renee used to be only attracted to women and Chris didn't mind and now they're dating because Renee is omnisexual.

My attraction to women is very slight, but I am still bisexual. Renee's attraction to men is very slight, but it's still there, and she is still omnisexual. I think it's funny how we're on opposite ends, best friends, and how all this works. I also sincerely, deeply apologize for my actions. I know my mental health was not an excuse.

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