I would suggest using labwc with XFCE components or LXQT which has some Wayland support through external compositors.
Keep in mind that labwc is just a compositor and not a full desktop environment, so if you want to have a similar experience to XFCE you'll have to setup all the desktop components such as taskbars or desktop icons yourself. Fortunately you can use xfce4-panel and xfce4-desktop which are made by XFCE themselves and get most of the way there (these are Wayland compatible). If you don't like labwc there's also Wayfire.