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[–] foggianism@lemmy.world 8 points 3 hours ago

Is this picture taken by a satellite?

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 12 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Holy shit there's a lot of angry fat American people in the comments.

No-one is mocking them being fat. We're mocking America for having such a shit culture and food regulation that lots of people end up with this problem.

It's not funny to mock a specific hungry kid, but you can make jokes about famine.

You shouldn't trigger someone's personal traumas of rape, but comedians can joke about sexual assault.

I think blurring their faces would've made this less a joke and more shaming. So idk what the issue is.

[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Holy shit this comment section is a train wreck.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 12 points 13 hours ago

Train wrecks? Those things America has a lot of nowadays that all safety regulation is being deleted as we speak?

Uh, I hear ya, buddy.

Freight Trains: Last Week Tonight with John Oliver (HBO)

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 14 points 18 hours ago

At least they are outside.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 16 points 19 hours ago (3 children)
[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 15 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

An obscenely large soda from 7-eleven. The cups in the image aren't Big Gulps technically, but they are very large drink containers, and OP is using the term Big Gulp loosely

[–] salty_chief@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago

A very large enclosed cup to hold liquids.

[–] AGD4@lemmy.world 49 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Nobody wants to be in that shape, nor to be photographed and mocked online like this.

My heart goes out to those folks, and I sincerely hope they can find the help they need to turn around their unhealthy lifestyles.

[–] leftzero@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Speaking as a disgusting fat bastard myself, feel free to criticise and mock me as much as you want.

Maybe it'll finally motivate me to do something about it.

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[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 4 points 20 hours ago

My heart goes out for them too since their own is probably about to stop

[–] Asswardbackaddict@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Also, they don't need to justify shit and nobody wants your pity. Whether you criticize or pity them, you're disrespecting their autonomy, and your values don't align with the reality in front of you. That's a you problem.

[–] AstaKask@lemmy.cafe 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

These are severely ill people who will die prematurely even if they get the help that they need. Do you walk up to cancer patients and go: "oh you are so beautiful just the way you are, never change"?

[–] Asswardbackaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Nope. Just told my uncle the other day that we both know his weight will kill him. Then, I respected his autonomy. See, you can criticize those close to you without shaming strangers and projecting your insecurities onto them. If they want to eat themselves to death, that's their fucking business.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (15 children)

Lol no. There's a point of derision. You can't act like something this absurd is a functional reality in their head. At some point we have to say "stop it" and that point was way before it got to using handcarts for diabetes juice.

Edit: and that's before considering that their poor choices lead to higher insurance rates for people with self control.

[–] morbidcactus@lemmy.ca 8 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Telling an obese person to "stop it" is like telling a depressed person to stop being depressed, it totally ignores the underlying reasons.

I've struggled weight wise my entire life, been up and down 50 kilos over a decade, since actually getting an ADHD diagnosis and therapy it's trending downwards to where I want it to be.

I strongly believe from my own experiences (and others I know) there's a strong addiction component to obesity, would you describe smokers as having poor self control? There's a massive mental health (and genetic for that matter) component to obesity that's frankly overlooked, often can be a trauma response, maladaptive coping mechanism or as I said, addiction.

Have you ever talked to an obese person? My weight is/was a huge source of my self negativity, not a single person I know actually likes being obese, don't want to be that way, that cycle of self loathing is a spiral and it's really hard to break that, especially when society sees fit to attribute the entire condition to some sort of moral failing that makes it even harder for people to want to ask for help, let alone receive it.

I'm lucky, I've always been pretty active so judicious food logging + exercise works for me (and has in the past), others not so much. GLP-1 Agonists are an absolute godsend for people who really struggle from what I've been told (my ADHD meds kill appetite too, totally won't discount their contribution) they totally kill any food noise, actually helps keep them satiated, and importantly, kills their food stress response. Literally life changing, enabling them to actually get to a place where they can sustain it.

All of this is just the mental health components, there's other barriers in some places, food deserts are absolutely a thing and lack of walkable neighbourhoods does not help either.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 7 points 18 hours ago

I agree that there is a mental health component there. I have ADHD as well and used to smoke. But I never flung it in the face of society by smoking 3 cigarettes at once in public as a "fuck you". There's a limit to that excuse. I know how ADHD works and it doesn't discount some amount of shame. This? This is shameful. ADHD people aren't completely unaware, I know it's hard, but it's also not a complete excuse to be this obtuse.

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[–] baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

wow these replies are landmines so i will just be confused about how you even get a picture from that angle. the place doesn't look urban or like it would have any high-rises, and the USA (assuming this is it) also doesn't really do tall parking garages. and it very much looks like the photo was taken from outside.

[–] brisk@aussie.zone 49 points 1 day ago

Taken from the driver's seat of a new pickup truck?

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Drone in a parking lot, I'd say.

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[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 6 points 1 day ago

Google maps big zoom mode

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Imma be real, those things full of ice and water are godly on a hot day

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