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[–] the_mighty_kracken@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, but Leave it to Beaver was a faithful documentary of life in the fifties.

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[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 60 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Chandler being able to afford paying for rent AND providing for Joey is also incredibly unrealistic.

[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 84 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Canonically Chandler is actually super rich from his mysterious nerd job and just lives frugally, and Monica's giant-ass apartment is rent controlled and inherited from her grandmother.

[–] Genius@lemmy.zip 31 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

He works in data analytics, his friends just don't care enough to learn what that means.

He probably analyses consumer and advertising trends to guide investments and product launches.

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

I thought he was a dentist with a hitman friend.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 18 points 16 hours ago

i bet you can hear this

[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 11 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

You will care about the W.E.N.U.S because I care about the W.E.N.U.S!

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[–] ansiz@lemmy.world 12 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Chandler's job was just made to be some generic finance sector job, right? It's definitely possible even today, but he'd be working a lot more hours. You'd never see him on the show.

Ross being stable even as a PhD grad student seems a lot more unrealistic to me. He even loved on his own. But maybe it was family money.

[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

Ross wasn’t a grad student; He had his doctorate. Initially he worked at a museum of natural history, then eventually got fired (for screaming at his boss) and went to work at the university as a professor. Either way, in the mid-90’s, he would have been comfortable.

[–] ansiz@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

I mean they mentioned he and Chandler graduated in 1991, so if Ross got a PhD in 3 years that is probably a record, lol. I was always under the impression he was in a PhD program the first season of Friends and that's why he was working at the museum.

[–] LeroyJenkins@lemmy.world 17 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

Ross wasn't a grad student though. he was a PhD researcher + professor. back in the 90s, that would've been a decent gig.

[–] ansiz@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

I was under the impression Ross was still in a PhD program the first year, working at the museum seems like a gig for a PhD student. Worrying about the museum displays and stuff like that in season 1.

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[–] FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Chandler was more some bureaucratic data guy. The way they describe him is inputting numbers into speeadsheets at a megacorp. But he eventually becomes a manager.

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[–] 1984@lemmy.today 62 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

Capitalism is amazing. We can all just chill and have coffee and have amazing lives.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 26 points 17 hours ago

Now let us buy some American blue jeans and have hamburger sandwiches from McDonald's.

[–] plyth@feddit.org 9 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

True if you narrow down the in-group enough and are part of it.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 15 points 16 hours ago

As a temporarily embarrassed future billionaire, I understood that reference.

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[–] macaw_dean_settle@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Well this was a shitty show.

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[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 99 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (3 children)

To be fair they lived 5ft away, it may as well have been one big apartment. And one of them was a chef.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 29 points 21 hours ago (11 children)
[–] Demdaru@lemmy.world 35 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Older gens I'd say. My mother had afriend who always came in without knockin and just...vibed. Like they suddenly materialised in kitchen and talked while eating or materialised near table and drank coffee.

My partner's mother had someone like that too.

Meanwhile I am having a meltdown if someone tries the door before knocking (they are always locked anyway)

[–] Duranie@leminal.space 12 points 16 hours ago

Was your mom always goofing things up and was her friend's name Ethel?

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Not breakfast, but I used to eat dinner with my neighbors allllll the time. They even used my fridge to keep extra food in when preparing for parties and stuff.

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[–] whostosay@lemmy.world 15 points 19 hours ago

Lol plot twist, it was 4 overtly large apartments right next to each other.

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[–] RizzoTheSmall@lemm.ee 162 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

The expectation that you could get an apartment that size in central NYC without being a billionaire is also a lie

[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 28 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Some of that is due to the realities of filming in a stage made to look like an apartment as you need the space for the camera crew to fit. This everyone lives in massive places.

[–] Underwire@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

That's completely not the reason. How other shows manage to show small apartments and poor people houses?

Showing regular people living in big apartment is more appealing to the public. Shows from the 70s or before were more realistic. Mary Tyler Moore was living in a small apartment and sleeping in the sofa despite having a regular job. In All in the family, they were financially struggling especially because of the 70s inflation. Lucy and her husband were living in a small apartment.

Things did change in the 80s and we started seeing families living in big houses with cars. Even Roseanne who normally depicted a working class family was living in a big house and could afford many things.

[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 6 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

you think you know better than someone who worked on tv in NYC at that time?

Mary Tyler Moore's show never had the expectation of holding six or more people in the same room like friends.

All in the family took place in a house. Im not sure how you miss this. It's in the credits.

Lucy and her Husband never had more than a handful of people on screen at once. They dont need the space Friends does.

Friends needs a space for the main cast plus partners and that requires a larger space plus the ability to fit crew which requires large places. The bit about rent control makes perfect sense if you have experience with NYC real-estate.

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[–] Diurnambule@jlai.lu 9 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Never thought about this, that a really good input, thanks

[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 11 points 16 hours ago

NP,I was told the same thing by a camera guy back in the late 1990s about this exact show.

[–] Flamekebab@piefed.social 48 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I quite like the way How I Met Your Mother handles this - the size of the apartments is the narrator misremembering. There's an episode where the characters have been viewing a house in New Jersey - they return to the apartment and it's portrayed as the size it realistically would be.

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[–] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 80 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (8 children)

I think they explained it, the reason they could afford it was because Monica's grandmother lived there, and they've been paying 1950s rent because of rent control or something. Something similar for phoebe as well. Anyway show never explains how joey/chandler/Ross can afford those big houses.

Also worth remembering that except for Phoebe. All the characters on the show grew up upper class. Like top 5% upper class.

Also Phoebe lived with her grandmother in a small apartment until her grandmother died and she got roomamates.

[–] utnapishtim@sh.itjust.works 49 points 21 hours ago

Hi, Chandler and joey'flat is not that big, it was actually the joke between characters often and Chandler had a good job anyway. Ross was good with money and his parents favourite so I think he got more money from them.

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[–] Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago

Where breakfast

[–] kurikai@lemmy.world 67 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

What time do they start work? 11am?

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 39 points 17 hours ago

That was part of a joke at the start of an episode. Everyone complained that their boss didn't like them and Joey (working at the Central Perk at that time iirc) pointed out "yeah I wonder why none of your bosses like you. Maybe it's because it's Wednesday 12 pm and you are hanging out at a cafe".

[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 43 points 22 hours ago (6 children)
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