this post was submitted on 05 Jun 2025
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cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/39289533

Mine hit me with the “We're spending all this money on you now so you can’t grow up and say we didn’t spend money on you when your were a kid.”

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[–] Shelbyeileen@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

My mom constantly told me I was a mistake... that I should have been aborted. We were poor, miserable, and despite me trying my best, she never seemed happy with me.

After that, I vowed I would NEVER have a kid. I made her so miserable. I'm open to fostering, but I'd never bring a whole, new human into this world.

[–] JayJLeas@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

My mum frequently says negative stuff to me, but the one that sticks with me a lot is when she called me a "freak that no one will ever love" after I came out as trans.

[–] Mongostein@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago

When I was 8-ish I asked my dad for a hug. He said, “what are you a f****?”

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