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this post was submitted on 26 Apr 2025
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Hello new Lemmy friends!
Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.
The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.
Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.
We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!
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I know! People are sick of her. She's acting like she deserves a trophy for doing the least. We all spend time with our kids. We are involved with their hobbies. She's not doing anything special and the way she's pushing the idea is actually pathetic. She has nothing to offer the new generation of mothers. She lazy, selfish and toxic. Her content is chickens and Lemon.....oh and concrete porch goose....😐🥱🤡
This is so cool!😎
Come on!
Looking size 2-4 in her dress made for girls her daughters age 🙄 I think she loves to point out when she buys clothes at stores like Hollister and Garage , “look I can fit into clothes made for teens and young adults”.
Also her mother of the year act is nauseating when you know she’ll go back to ditching her daughter within a day of bringing her back from Disney.
What a lying fraud!! Where is this thigh hiding????
She really has no shame! That shoot was just a couple of weeks ago!
Right! She's a lying loser
Arms are bigger today and seriously...more Disney pics?. 😶
Lost over 700 followers yesterday. Everyone is sick of her Disney and bikini content lol
Or sick of this? Her head is almost as big as her torso. What kind of strange camera angle or filter do influencers use? It’s deceptive and 100% about looking thin. I hope she is gone from every internet feed real soon. She’s lost weight for sure, good for her as it is obviously very important to her but this photo is harmful.
I’m almost sad for her that she needs to do this AND that nobody cares about her enough to stop it. BUT it’s hard to be sad for someone like her who has built a platform on lies and continues to sit on those lies, she’s a sick person all around. Clearly people are cluing in though and brands aren’t calling her as much anymore. She’s dug her own grave really.
No jobs at all. I love it
She’s so done. Love to see it.
She’s really very sick and needs an intervention. The filtering is outrageous and the reverse-aging makes her look ridiculous. Doesn’t she ever wonder why she doesn’t have any friends who have kids the same age as her older ones? I made some of my best friendships when my kids were little and we’d all hang out together or just clicking with someone while waiting for the kids after school. Her constant posting shows everyone how the life she’s chosen to live is so empty and shallow. No one should be jealous or look at her as being aspirational. She’s a cautionary tale.
Exactly!
She looks like she is 16 years old here
Someone else got called out for this on insta reality. Bobble heads lol. I love that she's not getting jobs now that she's lost the weight. No one wants another skinny influencer.
Do you think those are 700 real people hitting unfollow or did a bot buy expire?
Good question
Where can we see these metrics?? 🎉🎉
I see them on hype auditor
I feel so badly for her children.
Claims to be a Friends fan but spells Monica and Ross's last name incorrectly - it's Geller! I get it tho, she's super sleepy baby, after her big long vacay around Disney doing nothing
Parenting for 1 week out of the year is soooooo hard. 🙄 Edit to add bird went on about practices for cheer and the whole family commitment and business. I can recall a number of times she exploited J and we saw her coming home after cheer practice where bird spent the night sitting on the couch. How gross that bird, who does absolutely nothing all day had another mom/dad doing the driving. I’m sure it was a carpool and everyone took turns but when you think of how demanding a real mom’s day is there has to be resentment seeing Sarah do nothing all day. I wish we could get an honest review from a mom in the cheer group.
We also know Papa P picks up the slack and drives J places after his birthday post
Thanks for the receipt and how weird to have this exchange publicly.
Really?! Didn’t see that and how can they let this happen? Sarah and Shane sit on their asses every single night - it’s literally documented!
Just had to take another selfie...
Set up a camera and then pretend you’re not your daughter’s mother but her playmate. I wonder what happens when she stops recording? It’s time for a nap. L has to be quiet so Birdie can scroll her phone and talk to her followers about how grateful she is for this time? This woman is, once again, making other moms feel they aren’t doing enough for their kid since they can’t take them on individual trips. I want moms to know the best 1:1 times come throughout the day - time in the car, a conversation while they are having a snack, getting them to help fold some laundry and you can have a chat. The best moments aren’t manufactured but come when you pay attention to your child every day and it isn’t some big event!
This little girl is gonna be so confused when they get home and her mom goes back to ignoring her while she ghosts around the living room in the background of mom's instagram posts. With her friends dust bunny, dog hair, and invisible cat, of course. 🫤
It’s so weird. Like you’re being a mom to this girl once in 4 years? Wow good for you! She keeps going on about never spending 1:1 time with her and it just makes her look bad tbh. She does nothing of significance with her days to not spend more 1:1 time with Lemon, lemon doesn’t even go to school so she’s legit available for 1:1 time all the time!!! She has literally every opportunity to do so but she’d rather spend 5 hours at a hair salon tending to her hideous hair, or go to lunch with anyone but her kid, or go to Toronto for the night, or sit on the sofa and stare at herself in her phone for hours etc. Yet I’m sure her loyal followers are in her DM’s telling her how amazing she is for doing this yet it’s her own damn fault she never spends time with her kid.
Exactly this. She continues to shine the spotlight on the 1:1 time, when there are a thousand and one reasons why it could and should have been happening way more often and it for some reason didn't, and just puts that on display. So daft. But like you said, her idiot followers are probably sobbing over it and SO inspired
Imagine setting up the camera to start jumping on the bed with your kid lmfao!!! Why is she pushing the narrative so hard of spending time with her child. That's what moms do. She's repulsive in every way. Not to mention the filters used during this video...even the walls are crooked..
Maybe it’s because we’ve spent weeks, no months, talking about how all she does is sit on her ass after her busy days of hair appointments and taking photos in bikinis while her kid plays alone. She didn’t read it and take it to heart she’s worried her followers might of noticed too so she’s doing damage control. Sarah loves herself and praise.
Sure seems like she’s drying up! 🤞🏻
100%
But she’s acting like this is somehow her first opportunity in FOUR YEARS to have 1:1 time, yet she has no actual job. What a slap in the face to working parents that would love to be able to spend every day with their kids.
Her life is just one performance after another and this week she was playing the role of mother with a callback to her role as SI swim suit model. To join the two she added a little story about how she was on the phone telling her daughter she had made the cheer team right before she walked down the runway. To add colour to the story and make her extra special she recounted how her good friend, the famous model, was astounded how she juggles it all! 🤮
Hunter pays zero attention to Birdie. Just for the gram lol
This kid is going to grow up and as an adult need constant vacations, consumption and attention in order to be happy.
Love the picture for this post, lmao! Lucky for L she now has J to hang out with and who will actually pay attention to her. Wonder if she’ll still carry around the imaginary cat now that her sister is there.
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