Well what else are we supposed to do? Open up about our problems and get ridiculed to oblivion?
this post was submitted on 23 Apr 2025
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I feel called out.
I've heard of worse coping mechanisms.
How else are we to feel better then?
jerk off to anime tiddies?
I guess there is more than one way after all
but that never makes me feel any better
do it more then?
What am I supposed to do? "Oh, hey, yeah, so, I just held my cat in my arms as he died. I had to euthanize him because he was had congestive heart failure, and was slowly drowning from pulmonary edema. I miss him so much, and I want to believe that he's in a better place, but he's just dead and gone, and I'm never gonna see him again. All I've got are memories, and they're going to fade with time until one day I realize that I haven't thought about him in years. But yo, how are you doin'? Any big plans for the weekend?"
You get up, and keep doing the shit you have to do, because it needs to get done. Telling people you're really depressed tends to make them feel really awkward, they don't know what to say, and then they gradually start ghosting you. Shit sucks, but you put a happy face on because no one wants to know that you aren't happy.
You can simply say "yo I'm sad about my cat's death". Accept your feelings and dont be shy to share them, just dont impose them. It also opens buds to help you if they're up for it.
Shutting them up only reinforces this idea that men dont cry and arent allowed to feel things, and the day you need actual help people will mock and leave you for being a downer and a weakling.
Friendships are built on the ups and the downs.
Also in this case, you need to let yourself grieve, or itll pop up in the future when you dont expect it to.
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Welll, yeah. You ever tried to tell someone how bad of a day you just had? They dgaf.
Friends are going to care if they're actually friends.
Often it's when I'm most likely to. Sometimes you need a distraction, small comforts, and a reminder of feeling normal
It's how we have to communicate, as most cultures won't allow us to be open with our emotions.
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