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I can't imagine how people could be so precise & rigid with their own personal liquid finances. It's all about vibes for me. Always has been.
Eh, I use a budget but I wouldn't call it rigid at all. I raid categories all the time when my priorities change, the difference is that I actually know what I'm giving up when I decide to splurge on something.
My budget is rigid where the expenses are rigid (mortgage, daycare, utility bills) and fluid where the expenses are fluid (eating out, date nights, video games)