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Many of us on platforms like this are introverts, or autistic, or have social anxiety, or for whatever reason, have trouble meeting new people or engaging with strangers. If someone wanted to engage you in conversation, what topic would you be happiest to talk about?

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[–] snooggums@piefed.world 2 points 13 hours ago

I am an introvert and generally don't go out of my way to interact with strangers, but when strangers have initiated conversation it is mostly like conversations with friends and families. Talking about something that is going on at the time, or some interest they have and want to share.

Talked about cars and kids with a random woman while in line at the auto parts place. Since I don't use public transportation at home because it isn't feasible (limited routes nowhere near my home) I am only on public transportation when I travel a couple times a year where I both tend to wish we had something similar at home and also glad I don't have to be around so many crowds at home. If someone starts a conversation there I tend to roll with it and participate because I know it is limited and won't ever see them again.

Really I enjoy talking with someone who is very interested in what they are talking about, except for sports.