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I've been watching TransGeneration recently, and it's basically just a reality TV show that caters to perverse cis curiosity about trans folks.
it has so many fucked up moments, but one of the ones I found amusing was when they took footage of Gabbie the trans woman cutting up hot dogs:
Then just to make sure we didn't miss the metaphor they zoom in and really focus on her cutting the hot dogs:
just, lmao
I had never heard of this. Shot in 2004-2005. Yeah, I bet they don't portray trans people in the best light lmao.
How are you watching? I'd love to get some insight on how the girlies of the past lived.
I've been watching these: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkg5GgOpcVI&list=PL88BD29E2D7FABBCE
but the videos are basically broken, often in the middle of an episode it abruptly cuts back to the middle of a previous episode - it's very frustrating and I need to find another format :-/
And yeah, I think the filmmakers thought of themselves as enlightened and helping trans people, but from a contemporary trans perspective it feels pretty transphobic and did not age well (particularly the way it uses a reality TV format).
Kinda reminds me how "retarded" used to be the medical term for the mentally disabled.
Every point of progress eventually looks dated. Though I'm sure with this being a reality show, there's not much progress.
EDIT: Looks like it's on Roku?
let me know if you watch it what you think 😄 I'm not sure it's as bad as "retarded" but some of the language is outdated, like the way Gabbie's grandpa (who is supportive of her) calls her "a transgender" and the show as being about "transgenders" - there is all this sensitivity about language now, about not using "transgender" as a noun and so on that there was no awareness of back then.
Even if language policing is tedious and obnoxious, I am glad on the other hand that there is increased sensitivity about language to some extent, because I do think language has capacity to stigmatize and it seems straightforwardly good to reduce unnecessary stigma against certain groups.
Reading about "retard" is interesting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retard_(pejorative)
I didn't know it was still being used in legislation in the US until 2010!
Also, I keep hearing proclamations that the word is "coming back", but it only seems like the people who use the term are shameless right-wing assholes who probably didn't stop using the word in the first place?