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Is friendi the only one? I want to move and try getting other people off of fb that are sick of its bullshit, but I need to make sure the alternative is a good one and we dont all have to hop around 5 times to get to a good one...

Keep in mind 98% of them are tech illiterate.

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[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well to me lemmy is more like an anonymous forum. I don't have friends or family on here.

[–] Tuuktuuk@anarchist.nexus 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you have them on Facebook, then?
I kind of do, but Facebook hasn't shown me anything from them in years. Makes their being there largely irrelevant.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, all of my friends post on fb and have for the past 12 years or more. Family uses it a lot.

It must be more popular in my area or something. There's no age difference either, people from 17 to 70 are using it.

[–] Tuuktuuk@anarchist.nexus 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, for what I know I my family used to post a lot there as well. Facebook just mostly stopped showing any content from them some years ago. But when nothing really comes out of it, they don't bother. They post something, I see some commercial content instead.

I post something, they see some commercial content instead.

I'm a bit surprised to hear Facebook works for some people like it worked a decade ago!

But also, Finnish culture is very different from US culture in how we talk and when, so maybe the algorithm just doesn't recognize the Finnish kind of engagement and considers us utterly uninterested in each other? Or maybe I've just been lucky and FB had been hiccuping? Dunno, there's no meaningful difference between PieFed and the little of what FB fed me that was not crud.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Ah I see. I make sure to go in and disable all ads and check all my privacy settings every so often so I dont get fed the slop. And I dont engage with it which helps. They track how long you even pause your scrolling to track what you look at. Its gross.

[–] Tuuktuuk@anarchist.nexus 1 points 16 hours ago

So, of if you deploy a lot of external plugins, Facebook can be made kind of worthwhile? That's aa little funny :)