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[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That I have zero coping skills for stress at all. Not that therapy helped.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Does the stress of knowing make it worse?

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't think so. it's like, explanatory. why am I freaking out? oh, I am as mentally fragile as a butterfly and can't handle literally anything. that's why.

[–] Ragdoll_X@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Having extremely high neuroticism/emotionality can be a pain in the ass. I actually only have high levels of anxiety according to the HEXACO personality inventory, but I still deal with mental health issues because of that. From your description it seems like you probably score high on all the facets and that sounds miserable.