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[–] saucerwizard@awful.systems 10 points 14 hours ago (3 children)
[–] istewart@awful.systems 7 points 6 hours ago

This is genuinely horrifying throughout. It reinforces my conviction that I don't really want to know or gossip about the details of these peoples' lives, I want to know the barest details of who they are so that I can set firm social boundaries against them.

A quote the author offers, that stands out to me:

A man who is considered a TPOT ‘elder’:

TPOT isn’t misogynist but it’s made up of men and women who prefer the company of men. it’s a male space with male norms.

this makes it barely tolerable for the few girls’ girls who wander in here. they end up either deactivating, going private, or venting about how men suck.

I'd never been particularly ardent about believing it, but this right here is firm evidence to me that existing in a rigid gender binary is mental and spiritual poison. Whoever this person is, they're never going to grow up.

I don't wish to belittle the author's suffering, but I do hope she is able to reconsider her participation in these scenes where hierarchy, contrived masculinity, and financial standing (or the ability to generate financial gain for others!) are the signifiers of individual participants' worth.

[–] blakestacey@awful.systems 9 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Setting the stage: I had become a social media personality on Clubhouse

I'm sorry.

What I remember is that the organizers said something like ‘I’m sorry that happened to you’, and while speaking I was interrupted by someone talking about the plight that autistic men face while dating.

Vibecamp: It's the Scott Aaronson comment section, but in person.

[–] CinnasVerses@awful.systems 8 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (2 children)

"U" for "you" was when I became confident who "Nina" was. The blogger feels like yet another person who is caught up in intersecting subcultures of bad people but can't make herself leave. She takes a lot of deep lore like "what is Hereticon?" for granted and is still into crypto.

She links someone called Sonia Joseph who mentions "the consensual non-consensual (cnc) sex parties and heavy LSD use of some elite AI researchers ... leads (sic) to some of the most coercive and fucked up social dynamics that I have ever seen." Joseph says she is Canadian but worked in the Bay Area tech scene. Cursed phrase: agi cnc sex parties

I have never heard of a wing of these people in Canada. There are a few Effective Altruists in Toronto but I don't know if they are the LessWrong kind or the bednet kind. I thought this was basically a US and Oxford scene (plus Jaan Tallinn).

The Substack and a Rationalist web magazine are both called Asterisk.

[–] blakestacey@awful.systems 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

That "Hereticon" link looks broken; I think it should point to this RationalWiki page.

[–] CinnasVerses@awful.systems 1 points 1 hour ago

It looks like this site requites https:// or http;// to recognize a link as an external link, otherwise it prepends awful.systems/ and treats it as an internal link

[–] saucerwizard@awful.systems 5 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

I think theres a EA presence at the all the big universities now. Theres a rationalist meet up in Manitoba but nothing here thank god.

I noticed Sonia during the initial media coverage but didn’t know what to make of her. Theres another person on twitter alleging abuse at Aella’s cnc parties, I can dig them up at lunch if you want.

[–] swlabr@awful.systems 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

not to make light of abuse but I do just want to entertain the alternate world where people are holding CNC (computer numerical control) parties. I imagine they’d have a lot of caliper talk but since it isn’t about skull measurement it’s fine

[–] saucerwizard@awful.systems 4 points 10 hours ago

That would be a much better world (btw ironworkers are great if you ever get to use one).

[–] saucerwizard@awful.systems 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] blakestacey@awful.systems 1 points 1 hour ago

Transcribing (the nested blockquote is a self-quote-tweet):

Some day I'll be able to write about my experience with Aella's organizing/friend group who used their community power to slander me, bully me and ruin my life simply bc I told the truth and patiently sought understanding:

Idk what you're referring to but she/RMN team, when I brought up concern about my abuser, strung me along for months promising a conversation, then ultimately banned me, publicly slandered/victim blamed me, and continue to invite my abuser and his enablers to their events.

Note: after months being strung along w no clear answers/dialogue, one RMN organizer told me I was disinvited bc theyre "risk averse" w who gets invited.

Risk averse about... someone EXPERIENCING abuse/CVs/retaliation (not reporting it), but not about the ppl actually doing it.

I hope they understand how that's just not how you should be risk averse with your events... After experiencing the RMN team participation in the retaliation (again, all i did was talk about things that happened n correct lies), of course my disappointment & concern grew.