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We started with a state level virtual school when Covid hit for our child. We ended up switching to a homeschool track to allow her to take more classes. Also, she did not want to return to brick and mortar school. (We discussed the decision as a family). She is in middle school and has completed several high school classes on track to have her Associate degree by the time she would finish high school.
We also did the state’s prepaid program for a 4-year degree. So we’ve always had that path in mind.
It works for us, but primarily due to the effort and time my wife can dedicate to being Mom, teacher, and every other hat she wears. She also has a degree in early childhood education giving us a bit of an advantage here.
I work remotely and can help intermittently, but not as consistently.
If you are able to re-learn courses through high-school and be able to help your child on their learning path it can work very well. My wife and I both have college degrees, and some classes involve relearning concepts differently than how we learned the concept. It will require a lot more effort on your side of things.
Find some of the schooling groups in your area, these are great to get help as sometimes groups share curriculum other times it’s about the social engagement the kids need by not being in school.
It’s great if it works for your situation, but there’s a lot to consider what’s best for you and your family.
Thanks for sharing your perspective - it's really helpful.
Do you find that social interaction has been accessible enough for your daughter?
I’m in a semi-rural area so your experience may be different if you’re in a more urban or suburban area.
Yes, but this is the part that takes effort and some acceptance that sometimes it’s a different approach. Video chat and gaming can be social. My wife also is active in a couple different homeschool groups in the area that get together. Because they have more flexibility, they go to museums, festivals, park, and other learning or social building activities about every other week. We engage with some of the neighbors and their kids too.
The community groups are vastly different too. It’s trial and error to find the right group. You have to make an effort to be active at places and events where the kiddos can engage.
Depending on where you are and what programs are available, you might be able to participate in the extracurricular programs at your local school.
The other thing we encountered when engaging with the non-homeschooled kids is that our kid typically interacts better with adults, which in turn means they’ll be drawn to older kids. This can have its own challenges. Good and bad…. This is just our experience.
It has worked well for us and I wouldn’t change it for the world. I’ve had the opportunity to spend more time with my family than most. I consider myself very lucky.