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I don't understand this post at all. Why does it matter what someone upvotes or downvotes? The upvote/downvote means literally nothing at all. Personally, even removed the ability to see the upvote/downvote thing on Lemmy with Mlem.
People place way to much sentiment on the whole up and downvote. That's why Reddit just became a karmafarming place instead of actual (good) written conversation. Lets not do that with Lemmy. Also, this post could turn out quite bad and gets a unnecessary witch hunt started.
Why do boos and cheers matter in a crowd?
I do not know, you tell me? Anyway, it seems my particular comment got some people agitated. Did not expect to see people getting agitated over a single random comment and question.
Well if the crowd is booing you, it can mean you're wrong, or that you're bad at the thing youre trying to do, or that you're performing to the wrong audience.
If the crowd is cheering you, they're communicating that they like you or that you did good or that youre simply saying what they want to hear.
In the OPs case, where they're pressing the down arrow way more than the up arrow, it implies that they're in the wrong place as an audience. To extend the shitty analogy I started with, if I only love classic music and soft jazz, I'm not going to have a good time in a mosh pit. I should get out of the mosh pit and find a venue that plays classical music, instead of coming back every night and booing.
This assumes the user bothers with upvoting, which plenty of people don't do. They may well downvote what they dislike, and don't vote on what they do like.
Why do upvotes and downvotes matter? Is this a real question?
Reddit became the karma farming shithole it is because of their engagement algorithms.
IMO this post points to a what some believe to be an intentional effort to poison rival platforms to maintain the current monopolies. I think that matters.
Yes, it is. Because on Lemmy, the down and upvote does not restrict your account (like how Reddit does it). From my understanding the upvote and downvote on Lemmy is more “upvote, so more users see it and downvote see it gets seen less”.
Which means if one person is trolling it and downvote but majority of users are upvoting it, it doesn’t matter much.
That’s one of the many reasons.
Also, you don’t sound very friendly and since your account is about 5 days old. I’m very skeptical of your comment and behavior.
They affect visibility. Exactly.
Skeptic away, friend. Your account was also 5 days old at one point, but whatever.
Glad Lemmy allows infinite blocking users. So welcome to the blocklist, don't want to see unfriendly and unnecessary behavior from new accounts.
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bye felicia
I took an extended break from Lemmy but since I came back I'm noticing a lot more people announcing when they block other people. Can I ask why you felt the need to let everyone know you were blocking this person and/or what other social media you've used in the past? Like is this a twitter thing I don't understand?
I have always done that to people who are unfriendly towards me. It also gives them a notice that I won’t be replying to their unfriendly behavior.
Never used Twitter/X so I have no idea how it is on there.
Though, I wonder why do I need to explain my reason for announcing to block someone but someone else being unfriendly or having a toxic behavior seems to be okay and is not questioned. What other social media have you used in the past?
I cut my teeth on Reddit, personally. A long, long time ago, I used a certain anonymous imageboard but I stopped when I finally realized that what were edgy jokes to me were actually pretty serious business to the worst kinds of people. When I block people I just... y'know, block them. They can scream at the void, it's whatever. I don't engage with trolls, because telling them off often encourages them. I'm not trying to antagonize you here, I was just curious because you're the second or third person I've seen post a "get blocked loser" type of message in the past few hours.
Huh, you might be a loser who keeps getting blocked then.
What leads you to believe I'm the one being blocked? Anyone can read any message posted on here. Look, I ain't trying to upset anyone. I was just curious. Have a nice day.
Your overall vibe, I've seen it too but only when someone realized they've been throwing their time in the bottomless pit of a disordered mind. Like a fedora on the side of a trashcan, it's a sign someone took control of their life back.
Seems like you might be encountering it enough in response to your responses that it's annoyed you. Otherwise I can't imagine any other reaction than moving on with my life.
For me, they matter and don't matter.
Opinion down voting brings useless negativity to Lemmy.
40 upvotes, 60 down votes is totally normal, but seeing a -20 can lead to the removal of comments, which I don't like... Echo chambers are not what we need.
I'm on an instance that does not support down votes. That means, if one disagrees, they need to use their brain and write a comment.
Huge respect for anyone who does not down vote.
My own experience on Lemmy is that this has been happening more and more. It was not like that when the first Reddit migration happened. However, a year later and that kind of toxicity has started to arise.
It’s one of the reasons why I disabled the visibility of the votes. It also can manipulate on how someone thinks*.
Personally, besides the more technology knowledge on Lemmy.. I find that Lemmy slowly but steadily adopts more and more Reddit behaviors in terms of user behavior.
Honestly that sounds great. It means people usually have to actually write why they don’t agree.
EDIT; something went wrong with formatting and copied text twice. Edited it to get it correct again.
In my experience down votes basically exist to justify psychotic power mods being able to block people they don't like.
I assumed that moderators just ban people they do not like or at least remove comments. Blocking people that you do not like is helpful. Keeps your feed and comments section clean and brings less unfriendly behavior. I'm a huge fan of Lemmy's blocking, it does not prevent the blocked person to comment but it does help the blocker to prevent seeing anything from the blocked person. Brings peace to both, one can simply comment and the other will not see it.
From the context of my comment I thought it was clear by block I meant Banning. But I can see how you were confused by that.