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i tend to be a bit of a yapper, very loud (theres an interesting reverse-masking thing going on there, which if anyones interested, lmk and ill explain) and tend to be quite rude.

really inside, im a quiet person, but i tend to impulsively speak and be loud, and say things i dont really want to say, e.g. being rude.

these are things i really want to deal with. when i talk less, and be quieter like i am inside, i tend to be much happier. does anyone have any tips?

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[–] QueenMidna@lemmy.ca 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

This is going to sound like a weird suggestion, but I used snacks/gum to slow me down. The very act of having something in my mouth makes talking harder so it forces me to stop and consider my words a bit, gives others a chance to reply

[–] ollie@pawb.social 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

i love that actually, gum helps me with quite a few neurodivergency issues, if i had more access to it id be using it constantly

i always wished there was like a gum that just existed to be chewed on forever and could be washed or something

[–] QueenMidna@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 hours ago

Sugar-free gum is pretty cheap and won't affect your teeth. You only need to chew it long enough to give your brain a break