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editing is not writing, don't edit before you are done writing the first version of your story, and editing gets easier after the first enarmourment for a story has worn off anyway. sounds easier than it is, but the voice in your head telling you that you are writting badly is not your friend and not helping, even if it might be right sometimes.
have a look at the "snowflake method" and learn about various story structures to help plan the beats of your story. if planning far ahead is not your jam jot down some notes for what happens next, or if you can't decide turn the possibilities into yes/no-questions flip a coin and run with whatever fate decided. in general take notes, can't trust that brain to produce the same output twice.
thats normal, if a story can't reignite the spark that lead to starting it in the first place, that story won't be finished. keep it somewhere you see it from time to time, it might call you someday and if it does not that's fine, most stories are never finished. if you want to finish something badly try to set a deadline you cant easily ignore, i turned short stories into gifts (a long with a 'real' gift) sometimes just to have a reason why it must be done on day x. the story was not necessarily for the person i gifted it to, but i needed the pressure.