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[–] Isolde@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

When you were in school they gave you your tests face down, didn’t they?

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I got good grades, if that's what you are trying to insult me with. What's your problem? Can you just be real and talk to me like a person? What are you trying to say? I know every country has women, ffs. I'm also saying we in the EU have healthcare and jobs almost everywhere.

Is that wrong? What's the issue and why the insults? Try to keep it an adult conversation, please. Thanks.

[–] Isolde@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

What’s your problem? I wasn’t put on this earth to talk with or educate you. I SAID I no longer have any interest in talking to you; you can’t understand that but you got shining grades?

Why don’t you go demand things from some other person; because I guarantee you don’t want to take this further.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

My problem is you being rude for no reason. We try to be nice to each other here on Lemmy. Your account age tells me maybe you haven't figured out the vibe here yet. It's not the same as Reddit. We try to keep a chill vibe and not threaten people and insult them, like you are doing.

I am not "shining" my grades. You were insulting my grades in school, I'm just defending myself from your your defamation. 👍 Simple as that. And now that part of the conversation is water under the bridge, I'm willing to forget that. 🙂

What "demands" do you claim I'm making?

Thanks for being more chill in your responses from now on. I'm not here to bicker and argue. Just straightening things out, okie dokie? 🤝

[–] Isolde@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Honestly, I don’t really care what your thoughts on me, my comments, and how long I’ve been on Lemmy are. This obviously bothers you, and that’s a little sad in my opinion.

You didn’t even read the comment before replying to it. Is that how it’s supposed to work on lemmy? You blindly comment and then get upset when someone calls you out on it?

Let’s not even get into your veiled misogyny. What was the purpose of “we have women here”? explain that one to me. I’m sure you’re thrilled to be talking to one, but I find it intrusive at this point. If you want to set things straight, go do it with literally anyone else. Preferably someone who thinks better of your intelligence and character- I don’t; and that isn’t an invitation to show me otherwise or whatever juvenile interpretation that actually means in your mind.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I don’t really care what your thoughts on me, my comments, and how long I’ve been on Lemmy are. This obviously bothers you, and that’s a little sad in my opinion.

Honestly, I didn't even know that you didn't care, but I can assure you it doesn't bother me, and I don't care what makes you sad, because you seem absolutely insufferable. 🙂👍

You didn’t even read the comment before replying to it.

Which content are you referring to? OP's? I read the whole thing the first time. But just like you suggested, I accidentally read £ as $, so I thought they were American, which they weren't. That was spot on!

veiled misogyny. What was the purpose of “we have women here”? explain that one to me.

OP mentioned trouble with online dating. We have women here willing to date, obviously. Just like anywhere. That's all. K?

I’m sure you’re thrilled to be talking to one.

I like how you throw insults at me and then make up some conversational rules where I have no chance to defend myself lol. Ever heard of Master suppression techniques? I like your feeble attempt at some kind of incel insult though. 6/11. Ask my wife of 10 years if she thinks I'm misogynistic. Or literally anyone who knows me, I guess. Perhaps my feminist mother who raised me alone.

You're reading waaaay too much into my original comment. I'm a feminist, but I've met other extremist feminists like you who are trigger happy and will bite at any old dead bait nothing burger in order to start a fight about holographic mirages of misogyny. Re—lax.

I've explained what you asked me to, and I defended myself even though you claimed I wasn't allowed to. Oops. Oh well.

Hopefully we're done here, I don't want any further contact with you. You started this aggressive conversation and I tried my best to be civil with you, but you act like a savage .

You're not allowed to make any replies!1 Let's see if you follow my rules... Bet you they'll work just as well on you as yours did on me. 👍👍

[–] Isolde@lemmy.world 0 points 51 minutes ago (1 children)

You need some help, and maybe some friends who care about what you have to say. Consent is impotent. You’d do well to learn that.

I don’t think you don’t comprehend, but I no longer wish to engage with you. I understand you hear that a lot; but every one of those people mean it. I’m sure if you dedicated even one modicum of what you did writing that essay to working on yourself, you’d be able to avoid writing them all together. And if your ego gets bruised so easily as that, I’m sure you write a lot. Good luck.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 3 minutes ago

Yup, there it is, nothing left in your "discussion" but insults. Glad to have you on Lemmy, straight from Reddit I imagine. What an insufferable human being. 😆

Bye!