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Mildly Infuriating

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[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You're putting words in my mouth and confusing the difference between a demographic and an individual. AS A DEMOGRAPHIC, women are oppressed. AS A DEMOGRAPHIC, men are not. We're talking about statistics here, not individual experience.

The fact that some men are oppressed does not imply men are equally or more oppressed than women.

The fact that women AS A DEMOGRAPHIC are oppressed and men AS A DEMOGRAPHIC are not does not imply all men are oppressors. It DOES imply that men opress women, but like... fucking duh? If men aren't pressing women, then who is? It doesn't mean all men are oppressors, but are you seriously going to sit her and act like the majority of domestic abusers, sexual harassers, and discriminators AREN'T men????

You're interpreting a defense of women exclusive spaces as an attack on individual men. You should unpack that.

[–] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well then not all man are oppressed isn't that okay to have a man-only communty?

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I guess I was a little to aggressive in my original comment. I meant to explain why minority only groups get less flack than majority only groups, not to suggest that men only groups shouldn't exist.

Women only groups exist alongside the people who disapprove of them. I don't see why men only groups can't. As many have pointed out, however, men only groups DO exist. Someone linked to dull_mens_club as a Lemmy specific example, but more broadly, fraternities exist. Battered mens groups exist. I think some groups like nights of Columbus and the masons are or were men only. Men only schools and colleges exist, as do women only. Most veterans organizations are primarily men just by nature of who makes up the majority of most militaries.

[–] salvaria@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago

Copying my comment here for visibility too, that comm is not a men's only comm, nor should it be treated as such.

The official Dull Men's Club website encourages women to participate as well, so I don't think it should be considered as a men-only community:

Though it started with men, women now belong too.