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A meme is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads by means of imitation from person to person within a culture and often carries symbolic meaning representing a particular phenomenon or theme.

An Internet meme or meme, is a cultural item that is spread via the Internet, often through social media platforms. The name is by the concept of memes proposed by Richard Dawkins in 1972. Internet memes can take various forms, such as images, videos, GIFs, and various other viral sensations.


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[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Her 5yo got it right.

By default you should be nice to people. Care about their needs, avoid offending them (and if you do, apologise), avoid unnecessary lies, all that thing. And since most people are surprisingly reasonable, they'll do the same towards you.

However. There's always "that" arsehole, petty, assumptive person. No matter how nice you are towards them, they won't be nice to you. Don't be nice to them - even if on the outside it's irrelevant, it'll eat you from the inside and make you feel like shit. Or, like she said, "hurt your energies".

[–] JamesBoeing737MAX@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

"Most people don't want you to die in a concentration camp."

[–] Venat0r@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

most...

I think they're referring the few who do want that..

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 7 points 1 week ago

I am talking about the sort of everyday interaction that would make a 5yo get scolded for not being nice. This is clear by context.