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Honestly, you don't do much of anything except wait when it comes to the results of HRT. You want to keep an eye on your levels and make sure your doctor isn't giving you too low a level, but otherwise, it's just a case of wait and see.
HRT will cause new fat you lay down to lay down in different areas. But it takes time for everything to adjust and you might be able to nudge it here and there, but basically, it takes as long as it takes.
I'm about 8 years in myself, and not much is changing these days (well, except for aging). But things were changing until around 5 or 6 years in.
But, there's lots you can do that isn't just waiting for HRT. These days, I pretty much don't do much of anything special in terms of getting dressed up and super fem, but my first couple of years were pretty much constant experimenting. I got a lot of good results from learning how to do basic makeup. I had no idea what my style was, so I just fucked around and found out (in a good way). That's what you need to do :)
How often would I need to have my E checked?
Whenever your dose changes, and a few months after you've been on a particular dose.
There's no "right" level, but there are quite a few doctors out there who under prescribe, so basically (for you, not the doctor) it's just to give you peace of mind.
Oh true, I got underprescribed initially and now I'm doing 3 sprays a day.