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Yeah it's disturbing that you're getting so many downvotes simply for being bold in your stance here. I mean I do understand why... There are strong and often unexamined emotions at play here. But it's still disturbing. Antinatalism isn't eugenics but it sits right next to eugenics in a logical process. It's positions on ecology and it's emotional social resentment place it on a pipeline to fascism.
Is "antinatalism" some kind of organized movement or something? Because I think the reason that they're getting downvotes is because it comes off as saying "your personal choice to not have kids makes you a eugenicist and a Nazi, kids are the best thing to ever happen to you in life and everybody wants them, even if they say they don't." It certainly came off that way to me, but I've never heard the term before. I just don't want to bring another life into this hellhole of a country on this burning world that we continue to do nothing to fix.
@EldritchFeminity @infinitesunrise I'm not sure if it's organized, but it does describe a specific school of thought that isn't just "I don't personally want to have kids." Antinatalists generally believe that it's unethical for anyone to reproduce. The core argument is usually that since you can't consent to being born, you can't ethically impose it on someone against their will. It tends to go hand-in-hand with misanthropic ideas such as that humans are destructive to the planet/fundamentally cruel or that life in general just sucks. Ultimately, the thesis is that humans should extinct ourselves. Given the current state of the world, it's gained some traction amongst groups of people trapped deep in despair right now. (Which, let's be real - there are a lot of on Lemmy)
Exactly. I don't have ideological bases for my personal preferences, which I then promulgate to strangers online.
I get that hope is scarce these days, but hope is always a leap of faith. The point isn't to make the jump, the point is to jump at all.
I don't think there's some central antinatalist org yet, but there are smaller organized groups. I first encountered the whole philosophy when a group called Stop Having Kids put up billboards and tabled on the street here in Portland.
I think your stance on childbirth is fine, it's the same as mine. It's a decision for ourselves that we don't feel we're prepared to equip a new human to operate in the world when it's in this state. But take our stance and make it an organization, if it's anything more than a support organization for people who've already made that choice then it's going to be about telling others to not have children too, and arguing that they're doing an ethical wrong by having kids.
Thanks, this was useful - I hadnt unpacked this before
I actually meant to reply to the comment above you but I'm just as happy to reply to you! So I guess to add regarding what you asked about people using it as a guise for eugenics, I actually don't think antinatalists are doing that, generally. Antinatalists aren't villains, and I think they mostly mean well. They just have a lot of resentment, absent a fully matured leftist framework to guide those emotions into socially healthy advocacy. Which makes them sitting ducks for any actual villains looking for a demographic to coopt.
Lmao, yes of course, the folks who've abandoned their egos and taken a moral stance not to procreate, they are the ones who are the sitting ducks here.
Clearly anyone who thinks differently from you just doesn't have a mature leftist framework to guide their emotions.
And you're so opinionated and sure of yourself about this too, almost like you enjoy making yourself out to be the educated authority on this. What a true sign of a fully matured leftist framework that is unable to be pandered to or manipulated.
Please, tell us more of your takes on things you don't understand, it's just so woke and liberal of you to be this smarmy about a minority political philosophy you're not part of.