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What in the world?? Get out of your head. You want to be intimate with her or not? You think she’s beautiful so you get nervous around because you don’t want a beautiful person to think poorly of you, or you don’t want to mess up chances of being intimate with them, or you are nervous about telling them you want to be intimate with them? Just tell them you get nervous around them and go from there. If it’s a work setting be very careful. If not, just say you think they’re beautiful and you get nervous. Then decide if that’s how you want to carry the relationship forward or make a move and see how they feel about you.
No, not really. I'm asexual. I don't want to do anything with her, I just think she looks nice. Being friends with her would be nice, I guess, but not if I'm going to make her uncomfortable.
I think you need to understand why you’re nervous, then solve for that. She’s just a person.