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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

eventually you will realize you won't need to make people ok with it and even prefer it that way.

[–] ayawnymouse@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Ah, I wasn't thinking of that aspect. I actually meant bystanders, neighbors, etc. It's a possibility for sure, but might not happen in my case, because I prefer more "wholesome"/"romantic" scenarios in porn - even mind control porn: forced love or lust instead of forced body control. (Although I admit that I like those too sometimes, just not as much)

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

yeah so already once you have that power can anybody love you? I mean its the power. Maybe you are using it subconciously? In the long run you will feel alone as no one ever has felt alone before.

[–] ayawnymouse@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Well... Yeah. I wouldn't expect anyone to Truly love such a monster. (For a reasonable definition of true. They'd certainly believe they do.) But I'd know exactly what anyone thought of me before I made any changes.

Edit: Forgot the important part.
I actually think I could be quite happy to have unlimited physical affection even if I know that no part of it is natural.
I'm a bit of a hedonist, but don't have much chance to practice that in my actual life.