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The fact that she filmed him inside his own home certainly sounds iffy to me. Do door dashers carry a body cam that films everything? That could explain how she accidentally filmed him. But if she filmed him intentionally, inside his own home, then doesn't that technically make her the sex offender in this story?
Whether she accidentally or intentionally filmed him, I think that's within her rights. But either way, it was not within her rights to go and share that on the internet, accidental or intentional.
Filming someone naked inside their own home? I don't see how that's within her rights. If she was outside, or she had an automatic body cam. Or if he was actually threatening or assaulting her and not asleep. Those are the only excuses I can think of.
Guess I haven't seen the video, so I don't know if she went inside without being asked or the door was wide open and he was just right there.
At least I could understand if she thought he had set an exhibitionist trap and wanted some evidence.. but if she thought a cracked door meant to open up and maybe hand the food directly without being expressly invited in.
Butb while I'm trying to imagine a scenario that lets her at least go as gay as recording it, can't imagine it being justified to post it for the world.
I'm inclined to think she was grossed out, but taking it too seriously, even by her account it's just a naked dude not even looking her way or saying anything. A private complaint that the dude had his door open and naked woukd have sufficed without trying to trial by Internet here. I don't know if it was an old guy, a drunk guy, a sleepy guy or an exhibitionist. But in any event her posting the video is certainly enough to have her account suspended.
Technically I don't even care that she filmed him within his home, although I'm sure he would and it's not great behavior. The problem I have is that she posted it online. I feel like sometimes people forget that taking a picture or recording a video is one thing, and posting it online is a completely different thing, but because we see all these pictures and videos from other people online we forget that they made two separate choices in order for us to do so: they recorded the thing and they shared it with us.
Nope, she wasn't trespassing and he doesn't have a reasonable expectation of privacy from her.
A door being open is not an excuse to go into someones home. That literally is trespassing.
That depends on the situation, she was invited over.
She was told to leave the bag on the porch.