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Thank you dad <3
It's been hard losing so many of my support systems. I always thought I'd make this journey with someone but that ended up not being in the hand I was dealt. In programming there's a thing called the hill climbing problem where you are trying to get to the highest peak in a data set. Think trying to find the tallest hill in a field. You're only able to look around your immediate vicinity though. The naive approach is to always just go up from where you are until there is nowhere up left to go. It's not guaranteed to be the highest hill though since you may be next to a taller one and not realize it. I've always thought of this as a good way to think of how I approach my life where I want things to be better for myself but sometimes I have to go down a hill to see if I'm actually next to a taller one. In many ways I was very happy where I was but I also felt I capped out on what I could do, and with going through so many losses at the rate I did I just couldn't keep a hold on things very well anymore. I think this new hill I'm at the base of is going to be much taller but I have to climb the thing to find out.
Thank you for the kind words they mean a lot. I want to be a positive influence in the world it means a lot you believe in me. Love you too dad