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[–] Gustephan@lemmy.world 32 points 1 month ago (13 children)

Emasculated goes a bit far but I kinda get it. It doesnt bother me if a sexual encounter starts with a toy, but "let me grab my vibrator so I can finish" is a night that ends with me feeling like I'm not good enough and probably going to bed feeling bad about myself. It's something thats turned a few dates into one night stands for me when I told them how it made me feel and they were dismissive of my feelings

[–] Electricd@lemmybefree.net 5 points 1 month ago

they were dismissive of my feelings

At least that’s a way to filter out bad people from your life

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