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As long as my woman has an earth-shattering orgasm, I don't care how she gets there.
Do you care of you're not a meaningfull part of it?
Do you think a vibrator being involved and being a meaningful part of an orgasm are mutually exclusive? Hint: They're absolutely not.
What part are you playing, that is as equally meaningful as being the direct stimulus that is necessary for orgasm, that isn't also present when one is the direct stimulus? Being what brings a woman to orgasm is about as meaningful as it gets when it to comes to sex, next to the intimacy.
If you believe the only reason to have sex is to reach an orgasm and that the only valuable contribution to it is being the one that does it, then sure, but there's so much more to it than that.
Now, I wanna be clear. I'm not telling you how to have sex. I'm not saying the way you want to have it is wrong. If you want to be the one doing it and no vibrators involved, there's nothing wrong with that. But acting like that's the only way to have sex? No, there are so many more.
Yet you can't specify any that aren't covered by orgasm or intimacy?
Do you want me to talk about my sexual preferences?
I think being there while she does it is a turn on.
Is never being why she orgasms a turn on?
Watching her orgasm is. Plus cunnilingus usually works.
Then she doesn't need the vibrator...
It's not about me.
So...no...or?
If she get multiple earth shattering orgasms, it's even better.