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That doesn't sound like a good relationship to me. It seems like you're letting your ego get in the way of a better life. My partner helps me do things and i help my partner do things. When my partner helps resolve a situation that was not going well for me, then I'm very happy they did
I'm not sure you're reading their meaning the way OP intended it. From my read, it sounds like you're saying that she (assuming she's a woman because she called herself "mama") is unable to determine when to pick her own battles, and/or is ill-equipped to fight her own battles alone. I don't think that's what you meant, but I don't know why you assume that a woman who wants to take charge of her own problems is "letting (their) ego get in the way" and must not be in a good relationship? It seems a wild jump. The OP reminds me of my own relationships.
My partners know that when I decide to actually speak up about something, it's because it's something important to me. If they were to see me advocating for myself, they would never tell me I was letting my ego get in the way - they would cheer me on. They know that if I need help, I can ask them for it and reliably receive it. They don't swoop in assuming I'm a damsel in distress that can't fight my own battles.
I'd be more concerned if my partners didn't implicitly trust me like that. I'd feel coddled, thinking they see me as a child they need to keep control of.