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A place to share screenshots of Microblog posts, whether from Mastodon, tumblr, ~~Twitter~~ X, KBin, Threads or elsewhere.

Created as an evolution of White People Twitter and other tweet-capture subreddits.

RULES:

  1. Your post must be a screen capture of a microblog-type post that includes the UI of the site it came from, preferably also including the avatar and username of the original poster. Including relevant comments made to the original post is encouraged.
  2. Your post, included comments, or your title/comment should include some kind of commentary or remark on the subject of the screen capture. Your title must include at least one word relevant to your post.
  3. You are encouraged to provide a link back to the source of your screen capture in the body of your post.
  4. Current politics and news are allowed, but discouraged. There MUST be some kind of human commentary/reaction included (either by the original poster or you). Just news articles or headlines will be deleted.
  5. Doctored posts/images and AI are allowed, but discouraged. You MUST indicate this in your post (even if you didn't originally know). If a post is found to be fabricated or edited in any way and it is not properly labeled, it will be deleted.
  6. Be nice. Take political debates to the appropriate communities. Take personal disagreements to private messages.
  7. No advertising, brand promotion, or guerrilla marketing.

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[โ€“] Beacon@fedia.io 26 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That doesn't sound like a good relationship to me. It seems like you're letting your ego get in the way of a better life. My partner helps me do things and i help my partner do things. When my partner helps resolve a situation that was not going well for me, then I'm very happy they did

[โ€“] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I'm not sure you're reading their meaning the way OP intended it. From my read, it sounds like you're saying that she (assuming she's a woman because she called herself "mama") is unable to determine when to pick her own battles, and/or is ill-equipped to fight her own battles alone. I don't think that's what you meant, but I don't know why you assume that a woman who wants to take charge of her own problems is "letting (their) ego get in the way" and must not be in a good relationship? It seems a wild jump. The OP reminds me of my own relationships.

My partners know that when I decide to actually speak up about something, it's because it's something important to me. If they were to see me advocating for myself, they would never tell me I was letting my ego get in the way - they would cheer me on. They know that if I need help, I can ask them for it and reliably receive it. They don't swoop in assuming I'm a damsel in distress that can't fight my own battles.

I'd be more concerned if my partners didn't implicitly trust me like that. I'd feel coddled, thinking they see me as a child they need to keep control of.