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I wanted to buy something second-hand. Unfortunately, Facebook Marketplace is the shit where I live. So I thought I could quickly register, contact the seller, and delete my account afterwards.

However, I refuse to participate in this insanity. Video selfie my ass, Facebook.

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[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 26 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I read so many of the comments and concerns, and I don't even disagree with them!

Just want to add my two cents.

Lots of people are talking about how they resent that Marketplace has become the place to sell. I get that.

However, this is more of the same in an ongoing evolution of online ads & classifieds.

Originally eBay was King. Craigslist was kind of under the radar and not enough of a threat that they did anything about it.

Then all kinds of little online competitors to eBay started to pop up and they were becoming reasonably successful.

eBay then acquired PayPal so they could squash up startups. It worked. They no longer own PayPal but things change.

Kijiji popped up and was eating eBay's lunch on a local level. Instead of competing, eBay spun off local classifieds to another company which acquired Kijiji.

I don't even know all the back and forth wranglings, but it's all a giant multi-corporate game that's been played for 30 years.

Then all kinds of different "out of the box" storefronts started to appear.

Now Meta got in the game and they are keeping eBay and Kijiji "honest". They've gone ahead and integrated it with Messenger and other apps so you never have to leave their ecosystem.

It literally took 30 years, but I am finally content as both a buyer and a heavy seller, with all of the online options available. I no longer feel like they are trying to wrangle every penny out of me as of seller, and they let me voluntarily pay to promote my sales in MY terms.

That said, I'm not sure how I feel about needing so much information about people just to make an account.

On one hand (I'm very biased towards the seller's perspective) I can actually see the need to apply as much verification as possible for new accounts. It's been a severe deficiency in their product for years and years and years. And as a seller, I am exhausted with bots and fake accounts and people who want to hide in the shadows, there's no reason to do that when you're buying a vacuum off me and want to come to my home to pick it up.

On the other hand, I made my account years ago so I'm not subject to this requirement. But if I put myself in the shoes of somebody making a new account today. Holy fuck would I not be impressed with this.

I really don't know what the answer is. I would never upload ID or a video of my face to them. I don't know what's needed here.

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

...and people who want to hide in the shadows, there's no reason to do that when you're buying a vacuum off me and want to come to my home to pick it up.

As a buyer of random trash, I really don't want anyone to know more than they have to. The only identifying details about me should be "paid $13.65 for a set of glittery plastic tableware." In whatever ledger you keep for those sort of things.

I got a promotional text message from a store I bought a single repair component from once in a state I never visited. It made me irrationally upset. I would not accuse you of such, but every action to verify someone's "personhood" means that marketing types have that much more access to try to sell me junk.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

I respect the security concern but none of what you are describing is how Facebook market works.

If you got a text message, it's because you gave them your number that's your fault. Nobody has the ability to contact you outside of the marketplace ecosystem or messenger unless you specifically allow it.

If you're getting promotional messages, it's because you opened a business chat with that organization.

I'm basically saying learn.

None of that has anything to do with not wanting to upload personal information to meta.

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

On one hand

C'mon, with a bit of effort you could have made this one into 5 paragraphs each one sentence long too!