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Online dating is normality now. What are some red flags you should avoid?

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[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

No mate it's not that, it's just that I do a lot of voluntary work in the community and I've seen the impact on bi people. Plus my own beliefs are we all have to stand together as a community. I've had truly awful experiences with 2 bi partners though so I do get it. Including the classic bi stereotype of cheating on me with a man...

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Duly noted ... and yes, the community should stick together. But. When it comes to personal choices of who to engage with with a view to forming an intimate bond, then people have to be able to set their own parameters.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 8 points 3 weeks ago

I understand your perspective 😊