this post was submitted on 11 Apr 2025
35 points (94.9% liked)

WomensStuff

365 readers
69 users here now

Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.

founded 1 month ago
MODERATORS
 

It's often a small thing that shows it... what have you noticed?

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (4 children)

You can usually tell when a man doesn’t like women by how he talks about relationships. On places like AskReddit, you’ll see guys who feel entitled to sex or affection because they’ve had a hard time dating—and they blame women for it.

They start to resent women and expect them to take on traditional roles like cooking, cleaning, raising kids, and working full-time, all while splitting the bills.

Their idea of a relationship becomes purely transactional—like a checklist—without any genuine care or respect for the woman as a person.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Transactional is a good way of putting it! Their expectations for women are high (unpaid housemaid and nanny, attractive etc) and they think their necessary "payment" is minor. You see a lot of entitlement, and then resentment. Then of course it's our fault!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Sadly yes. Shoot, you'll even have some women paying for those guys credit debt, all his bills because he's 'in between jobs'... and does nothing but play Xbox all day.

I could go on, but I'll spare everyone lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yep there's so much pressure on women to stay in relationships no matter what