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If I were in your shoes, I would probably mention the change in tone/word choice to the lead on the project since you have a good relationship with them. Just mentioning that you noticed the change and aren't sure about it doesn't need to be combative, and I would be truly shocked if it cost you the job. Depending on your state it might even be illegal to fire you for something like that.
I personally would not take a stand or refuse to do the voiceover or anything like that. I would make it clear that I would do the voiceover using the script as it is written. I would think of it as providing feedback rather than making demands, which seems like it would be within the purview of a QA reviewer.
This way you can at the very least get more information about the situation - find out whether this was an intentional change. If so, it may be time to start making moves so you can eventually drop this company.
Yeah, I think this is the most reasonable approach. Everyone else is suggesting that falling on your sword is the first line of defense, and it really shouldn't be.
If you are the attorney general, and the president asks you to fire someone prosecuting him, sure, resign.
If you are just some person trying to get by, shooting yourself in the foot isn't going to help anyone. If you refuse to do a job, and they just hire someone else to do it, you've only really lost a lot at the cost of a small moral victory immediately rendered nil.
Not to get too utilitarian, but the ultimate goal should be to have the best outcome for everyone, not to just make the first decision that seems to be right.
There's a saying about fascism "Do not obey in advance", and the idea is that during the rise of fascism, the fascists don't actually have to make people do what they want. Lots of people comply with their goals well before being forced to. We are seeing many companies eliminating DEI objectives because it's what the fascists want, even though they don't have to.
This could be one of those situations where a frank conversation with the project lead to see if that's what's happening because there is a chance to convince them not to obey in advance. It could also be that the training is going for federal agencies that have been "legally" required to eliminate "gender" from any training materials.
I think it would be foolish to turn down the job without at least establishing that.
I didn't think of that. All of those are good points.