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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Outside the realm of Political Economy, I really can't stand it when people cancel plans last second, especially if they ghost. If you're going to cancel on the group hangout, let us know!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If they do that more than a few times I’m not inviting them anymore

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Agreed! Having to manage that with the TTRPG group I run right now. Cutting it close.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I used to do this when I felt unwelcome (I actually was). Maybe you could make sure your friends know you really would like them to come

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Oh they definitely do know they are welcome, but I appreciate the advice!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

This one drives me up the Fucking Wallβ„’, because how difficult is it to spend 2 seconds letting people know through text that you're not going? it's so inconsiderate and immature.