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As a trans woman, I'm going into the bathroom to poop or pee and wash my hands. That's it.
I'm not saying it has never happened, but I've not heard of a single incident of someone getting assaulted in a ladies room by a "man in a dress," but plenty of trans women are assaulted inside and out of restrooms by cis men due to hate and fear.
Until a trans woman (or man for that matter) personally affects you or someone you know, please stop buying into the fear bait.
It's an appalling thing for people to say and its just an excuse. It's totally illogical, why would trans women be lurking in bathrooms only to assault instead of the other safer options? How likely is it that a male predator would face the abuse they'll get for appearing trans (including risk of murder) just so they can hang out in the bathroom to assault someone? It's all an excuse to attack trans for daring to exist.
Absolutely agree. I appreciate the support 😊
just to provide some citations, numbers, and evidence to back up your absolutely accurate statements:
from: https://theconversation.com/baseless-anti-trans-claims-fuel-adoption-of-harmful-laws-two-criminologists-explain-206570
These laws aren't designed to protect women, they are designed to police gender (this impacts cis people too!) and eliminate trans people from public life.
Saved this post for future reference thanks for the factoids
Thanks for posting this!
of course! This is what I was reading after watching Matt Walsh's witness testimony in the California assembly before the vote on the anti-trans sports bill ... sometimes I spiral and it helps me to remind myself that there is empirical evidence on these topics, and the anti-trans narrative relies on lies, cherry picking, and getting audiences to come to speculative conclusions based on leading questions. They present their side as "evidence based" and "basic biology" - and the problem is that I have been raised the same way as a lot of these anti-trans advocates, I really understand their resistance to accepting trans identities, and what I have found is that even when I gather all the facts and scientific evidence (more than most people will likely read or parse for themselves), I still struggle for that knowledge to seep down into my unconscious and reform my persistent but outdated beliefs, like a habit that keeps expressing itself despite conscious efforts to undo the habit.
So I find myself doing a lot of journaling and revisiting the evidence, hoping it will actually cure me of my transphobia.