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And not a lesbian I presume?

Why would a lesbian not be considered as "women-identifying"? From the comment above:

Please note that [email protected] is a women-identifying community only.
[email protected] is where you would want to go. 👍

As opposed to someone who had a message removed for saying we’re sluts?

I had a look at the whole thread: https://midwest.social/post/25121964/16240093

It's obvious that the removed comment was ironic. I suspect that you reported this comment, and that the mod only saw the comment without the context and removed it.

Hello @[email protected], sorry to bother you, but could you please have a look at the comment I linked just above, and see it there wasn't a misunderstanding about the removal? Thank you.

What about the other banned person?

They were banned because they said they were a man and commented on a women-targeted post: https://lazysoci.al/post/23102645/14481815 . Not sure what is supposed to be wrong here.

I'm a guy

Of note, the “abuse” I was banned for

You've been banned from lemmy.balahaj.zone, a bunch of communities from LW, and lemmy.dbzer0.com: https://lemm.ee/modlog?userId=476956

Your most recent comment here seems to indicate you are indeed trying to abuse people: https://lemm.ee/comment/19316780