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Hey there, thanks for taking the time to read. I've been feeling bad for some time now and figured now is a good a time as any to share.

I am having a pretty serious issue with activating myself lately. I've been sidelined from work since the beginning of September. In this time I've been speaking to several healthcare professionals and colleagues. I'm currently in the process of finding a therapist.

I've recently drawn the conclusion that I do not sometimes have bad days, I'm pretty much down every day but I have moments that I'm fine. The fine moments are getting more scarce though...

Today I am writing to you because my mind does not know what it wants. I can't decide if I wanna call my friends and have a beer or if I want to curl up on my bed and cry.

Anyway, that was what I wanted to share. Thanks for reading.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I am extra disappointed in myself the days I don't do anything worthwile and that is what really gets me down.

The hardest part is knowing exactly why it's okay to not be okay and still be okay with not being okay.

I wanna thank you, Kevin, and wish you good luck on your way up.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Sometimes you just need a break and try not to beat yourself over it. Hang in there.