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Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
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TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
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LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
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Earlier this week I had a dream that I was a woman (feddit.org)

submitted 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) by GandalftheBlack@feddit.org to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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"Cis" guy here (in quotes because of what happened, not because I reject the label), just wanted to share this experience I had and figured this was the best place. So earlier this week I had a dream that I was a woman, which has never happened before, and it wasn't like I was viewing experiencing the dream from another person's perspective. In the dream, that was me. I can't remember much from the dream, just seeing myself in the mirror as her and being happy living as her. For the past few days, I haven't been able to stop thinking about it and wanted to experience it again, especially the couple of days after the dream.

That said, I'm happy in my body as a man and don't feel the need to change (especially not permanently), but then again I've spent enough time hanging out on Lemmy to know that those are the famous last words of the past selves of many trans people. I also use Arch by the way, so that probably tells you all you need to know.

There wasn't a particular point or question to this post, but I felt like I had to say something to somebody about it, and as an outsider the trans community on Lemmy seems like the most inclusive and supportive place on the internet. You are all beautiful people and I wish you all the love and support that you deserve <3

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[–] emptiness@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 8 hours ago

That’s cool. Dreams like that always gave me gender euphoria and were my only way of experiencing that. Lucid dreams where I was myself, a girl, that was really a highlight. I’d be so dejected when I woke up and would try really hard to get the dream back.

(I was never a “guy” otherwise in dreams; they were more abstract or I didn’t really even have a body).