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Are these points open to criticism? Sure. Still, there’s at least a spark of truth in them, and that gives me hope.
Was gonna ask if you lived in Europe, then saw your instance hahaha. Here the rescue lane thing works but I have lived in other countries where it doesn't happen at all. Though at least is not because people "don't want to make room" but because driving is a nightmare and people usually pack very tightly in traffic jams as if that's gonna make it any better. The madness of crowds...
Yes! And especially the third point.
Most people are good. We are divided and put against each other, and the important component of this is pitching that humans are terrible and evil. We are not!
Think of all the random acts of kindness you see around. If you can't recall them, go outside and start noticing. It can be someone giving directions to a stranger, freeing up a seat in public transport to those who need it more, helping someone carry something, giving a lift, offering a discount card at checkout (even if it doesn't accumulate points), seeding flowers in communal areas, and just so, so much more.
Look at how people care of their close ones, too. This is where people are allowed to care for the other without toxic boundaries stopping them. This is what people are really like.